“… above all a firm, loyal friend.” That is how I will fondly remember Carolyn. My son, Andrew, answered a request when he was at Bishop Pinkham School to help a lady with lawn mowing etc. and a long friendship ensued. We enjoyed lunch together every few months, exchanged ideas and views and could have talked for ever. Carolyn always called me just before Christmas and came by with a thoughtful gift and a huge smile, whatever the weather. I will miss her, not for the gift, but for the chats, the laughs and the friendship. I will remember her fondly. My heart goes out to the family that Carolyn so dearly loved and I offer my most sincere condolences. When I ride my bike down to Fish Creek Park, I will always remember dear Carolyn, as she would sign off on her emails “affectionately”. X

I was sorry to hear of Carolyn’s passing. I used to very much enjoy meeting her at Sandy Beach and walking our dogs together. Condolences to all the family.

The loss of a mother is a profound experience so make the time to grieve. Your mother would encourage you to work your way through her death to where only the good times and good thoughts and good feelings remain.

I first met Carolyn at a Calgary Singles Council event and we found ourselves with an affinity to one another. We shared many stories over the years. When I started to go out with your dad, Don Ray, she was pleased to continue to share, Thanksgiving dinners, Christmas Eve and birthday parties with me, either at her home, Don’s or mine. Even weddings of two daughters, Ashlin and Megan, she let me share. Your mother was an inclusive person and character. She was so knowledgeable about so many things from music to art to philosophy and of course women’s rights. I have many good memories of great conversations with your mother. When I left Calgary, she and I continued conversations through email. Carolyn left me with so many good memories. I hope that time, family, and friends will help each of you to remember her as a light that continues in your life. As long as we remember and utter that person’s name, they are still with us.

Carolyn was a long time friend from high school and I was often lucky enough to have a visit when I visited Calgary from Houston. She was always smiling, cheery, compassionate & interested in what was going on in my life. My condolences to her family. Carolyn will be sadly missed but I’ll cherish her memory.

My deepest Sympathies to Tim, Ashlin, Megan and all their families. I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. Your mother was a wonderful lady. She will be missed by everyone. My prayers are with you and family.

Hi, my name is Jo-Anne and unfortunately I have not had an occasion to meet any of you, but I have spent considerable time with you Mom over the last couple of years. We started Yoga together, went to ATP and Theatre Calgary together, almost went on a River Boat cruise together, but most important of all we had a weekly visit every Thursday when she was in the Calgary Farmers Market, so indirectly I know a little about some of you.

I do have to tell you the story about how Carolyn and I met. I work P/T for an artist at the market and am situated by the west door where your Mom entered. As you probably know, she always walked in with her cart and it had the squeakiest wheel so I could always hear her coming. Eventually we started chatting. I guess I finally teased her enough about her cart that she oiled the wheels. Every now and then I would give her another nudge to get her oil can out again and from then on she kept it in fine working order.

I am still in a state of shock that I will no longer be seeing Carolyn’s cheery face coming to shop every Thursday, I will no longer be getting the up-date on the current movies, and I will no longer have a side kick for the activities we participated in together. She was a delight and so willing to join in.

Yesterday, at work, every cart that went by me with a squeak, I looked up from my work expecting Carolyn’s happy face. I am so sorry she has left us.

Carolyn was a delight. I remember her love of nature, her passion for the flora and fauna of this world. She was so engaged in life, widely read, curious, and always ready for a good discussion! The world is a lesser place for her absence.

My deepest sympathies go out to Tim, Ashlin, Sue, Megan and their families. My life was blessed because I knew Carolyn and I am so grateful for the time I spent with her. We had wonderful conversations and I hope she knew just how much her advice and wisdom meant to me. Carolyn was tenderhearted and kind and her compassion for animals and the environment were inspiring. I am deeply saddened by her passing and will miss her so very very much.

We are all saddened by the surprising news. May we try to live as you did with passion and zeal and continual curiosity or life.

Rita, Lori , Susan, Dan and Meg ( Catalyst for Health Clinic)

My deepest condolences, Megan. I know how much your mom meant to you and how deeply this loss hurts. I have fond memories of conversations with your mom over the years. Thinking of you all! My heart hurts for you.

Dear Tim, Ashlin, Megan and all your family.

I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. Your mother was a great woman and she will be truly missed and will always be

remembered.

I want to express my condolences to you.

Megan, my deepest sympathy to you and your family at this very sad time. Memories of the wonderful times that Carolyn and I shared together over the past 2 1/2 years, will remain with me forever. Carolyn was a very warm, loving and caring person and will be deeply missed. Rest in peace and a last goodbye to my very precious and dear friend. You will always have a very special place in my heart

Heartfelt condolences to you, Megan, & all the family.

I knew Carolyn since Grade 7 at Earl Grey – loved her passion for nature, animals, music & bridge.

Our thoughts are with you & your family,

Sylvia & Dudley Gerry

Sincere condolences to Ashlin and family.

My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Megan, I’m sure it was agonizingly difficult but from a distance it looks to me like you have reflected your Mom perfectly in your plans for the celebration of her amazing life. CPAWS is the perfect place for donations. I love your obituary. You know how much I loved your Mom, and I won’t stop loving her living presence in my life as long as I live.