Condolences
So I have to follow that. As per usual, I’m in for comic relief I guess. In true Dad style, I’ll try to add some levity to the situation. As Colin alluded to, he did not share any of his tribute with us. Thanks bro. I’ll try not to duplicate it. I’ll try to share what I can about my feelings and some stories that I’d like to share.
What is left to say about such an amazing man? He was more than a role model to so many people, family, friends, it didn’t matter. I can’t tell you how many of my own friends treated him like he was their father, probably even better than their own father. I’ve had many of my friends tell me that they looked up to him and saw in him what they needed to see in a father. He always did everything he could to make my friends or anyone feel at home. As the grandkids said last night, he would do it with a wink or a smile, and you knew you were welcome. Because he had that presence around him, and because of his passion for ball, with my softball team he would come around on Sundays and have a beer with the team. If it was a co-ed team it didn’t matter, he was there. On Father’s Day, they let him play. A bunch of young punks and this old whipper-snapper that was out there, 70 years old. Some of these guys played college ball and they had an arm on them. And I said “We’re going to put him on first base.” They said “Are you kidding me??” I said “Gun it at him. That’s what you’re gonna do.” Dad would pick it up off the ground. A couple of guys would apologize If they missed him, but Dad would say “No I’m sorry, I should have gotten that.” That was his style, making everybody feel so much better. That’s what he did for us, always making everyone feel good about themselves. Even with strangers or someone down on their luck, like Carl and Colin alluded to, he would walk up to them and they would leave with a smile. I don’t know very many people who have that quality. He would just make them feel comfortable and happy.
He didn’t have a lot of wealth to give, financially he always just made do, but as my brothers alluded to, what he gave was his time. He always had time for everyone. So much so that a friend of mine who reached out to me that I haven’t spoken to in years, she remembered a time back in elementary school. We were supposed to go to Wintergreen skiing that day. And there was not enough seats on the bus for all of the children and their ski equipment. My Dad was working at 3 different schools at the time. He was going to be late for school, but he offered to take the remaining kids – I mean you couldn’t do that these days, take kids in your van – but he said “I will drive them.” Who else would do that? He made himself late for work, risking his own job, because that was his priority, making us kids happy. Because he just cared about everyone else’s happiness.
His patience, his kindness, his compassion for all those around him was inspiring. I was lucky to witness some of these truly tender moments of love that he shared with our mother at the very end. Even in the hospital, with a very weak and tired arm he danced with her, and actually had the wit to joke about spinning her. “I’m going to spin you” he said. It was awful looking, but they both tried so hard for each other. He will forever be your dance partner Mom. I was beyond blessed to have a job for too many years as a DJ at the Black Swan where I saw them dance on Saturday nights. I was so privileged to have my parents come down and party with me and start the dance floor. They would be the first ones out there. The bouncers, the gentle giants, the most intimidating men, would say “Wow, I’m impressed.” He will always be your dance partner Mom. Do not be in a rush to join him. We need you here for so many reasons. He will wait for you.
Even harder than seeing what my Mom has gone through is watching the grandchildren and knowing that my daughter and the other 5 grandkids were just scratching the surface in getting to know the man that we knew for so many years. His love for them was infectious and admirable. It was the same love he had for our entire family. It is now up to us to make sure they never forget the impact he has made on so many lives, and will continue to do so. In doing this we make sure he will never be forgotten. Trust me Pops, they will know the true life lessons such as “Close only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades”. One of his favourite quotes that he would bust out almost every night.
Dad, you were always there for all of us. So talented at so many things, from sports to music to education. But the greatest was as a husband, a father and a grandfather. All the family ties like brother, cousin, and uncle, this is where he truly excelled and meant the most to him. His direct involvement in our lives as sons taught us so many life lessons through the years, and in so many ways, from being our coach, our teacher, our partner in cards, and even as our friend.
We tried, Dad. We tried so hard to do everything we thought we could do to beat this together, but this was the one time we just couldn’t win. We are so sorry that we couldn’t help you make it through, but you are finally at peace, and no longer in pain. That’s the only thing that makes it a little bit easier to understand. Please rest Dad, you deserve the break. Take all the time you need for yourself. One day you will be our coach again, and we will always look forward to that day.
Love you.
My brothers have no idea what I’m going to say. They prepared, and I just speak from the heart.
Dad, there’s so many things I want to say. We all know you had a love of rollercoasters and waterparks, but Dad, you have put my heart through a rollercoaster of emotions. I’m angry, I’m shocked, I’m sad and I’m confused. Why did a man with such a selfless heart and gentle soul have to be taken so soon?
I’m angry that the end of your journey here on earth ended so quickly. I thought you just had a sore throat from some of that acid reflux again. I’m angry because I thought we did all the right things medically, seeing the top doctors including the best throat doctor in the province, so why couldn’t they help you cure this? I’m angry to hear other people say stories of people beating cancer or who are cancer survivors, but all we got was 3 months. I’m angry because everyone I spoke with about you was praying for a miracle for you to conquer this invasive cancer, so why couldn’t a miracle happen for my father? I’m angry that this good, selfless, compassionate man had all the time in the world for everyone else, and in the end he didn’t have any time for himself.
I’m shocked. All of this seems so surreal. Just like all of you I’m shocked that this happened so quickly to an otherwise very healthy and extraordinarily cognitive man. Just 3 years ago he finished his first triathlon. Just 2 years ago he was still playing ball with his buddies and travelling the world. Just last year he was still dancing to the oldies with Mom and doing polkas. So how could this be that same man who was only given such a short time from diagnosis of cancer to end of life? I’m also shocked that I never heard my Dad say no. Dad, it’s 6:00am, it’s snowing outside and I woke up late to deliver the papers, can you help me? He didn’t say no. Dad, can you help me pack my family up and move to Texas? Dad, do you want to come watch Tiernan play in the T-Ball World Series? (And yes that is a real thing in the U.S.). I’m shocked that I never heard him talk negatively about anyone or anything. He was always optimistic. “Well you just never know” he would say, meaning there was always a chance things could work out. Well Dad, your favourite hockey team the Habs won in overtime last night, so you’re saying there’s a chance. I never heard him yell or raise his voice. He was always so articulate and seemed to always know the right way to make someone feel appreciated and listened to. And I never heard him curse (except when he was losing to the ladies in canasta, pegs or cribbage). But what I’m most shocked about is that I’m here with all of you, my family and friends, saying goodbye to my father.
I’m confused because I thought we had more time to spend with you. I’m confused because I thought we had more time to watch Tiernan get his first home run over the fence (you’re close buddy, you’ve had a number of them hit the top but not go over). I thought we were going to watch Daymond get his first hole in one or watch Eva get her first perfect score in gymnastics. I thought we had more time to take more family trips together with Mom and my brothers, go camping, and ride more rollercoasters. I thought we had more time to enjoy your soft and warm heart, your wonderful smile and your big hugs. I’m confused because I thought, like always Dad, you would make everything alright. I’m so confused because Dad, you’ve been late to most events in your life, so why do I feel that you left this world and all of us just too early?
I’m sad. I’m sad to know that my father won’t be around us anymore. He won’t be here to help those in need. He won’t be here to show others what it means to have patience, kindness, acceptance, compassion and selflessness. He made everyone feel included and part of the team and family. Just like our Canyon Meadows Tiny Mite soccer team that he was Head Coach of. We won the provincial title that year, but that’s not what made him a great coach. He never yelled at us, he just got us to play our best, because you belonged to the team. He gave every kid a chance to play and got them to believe in themselves. He made sure every kid scored a goal that season, including Kirk our goalie. In one of our last games, he sent Kirk to take a penalty shot. But what if Kirk missed? We don’t have a goalie in the net. He scored, and everyone scored that season. It was a great team. I’m sad because no one will be able to see his selflessness anymore. He always made time for everyone, talking to complete strangers and putting a smile on their face. Even in his last days I saw his selflessness shine with my daughter Eva. He was hurting so much in his last week. He could only stay awake for 5 to 15 minutes at a time. But my daughter wanted to spend more time with him and wanted to read him a story. Eva has dyslexia and has some troubles reading. But that didn’t stop her from being with Grandpa. So Dad, with all the patience in the world, used what little energy he had left to go get his glasses and help her read the story. He was so sweet. But mostly I’m sad because most people in this world don’t care for and treat others with respect and dignity like my father did, like he would do every single day.
But Dad, at the end of this rollercoaster of emotions, I feel pride and I feel happiness. I am proud to say that I had a father who was always there for me, my brothers, my mother, my kids, our family and all of his friends. There was never any questions asked. He was always there. I’m proud and happy to know that my kids will always know what a gentle and patient soul their Grandpa was. I’m also proud to know that after reading the hundreds of letters, cards, texts, emails, and seeing all of you here, that my father touched and inspired the lives of so many people. And that he will be remembered as a good, kind, compassionate man with a joyous smile. I’m also happy and proud to know that Dad was called back to heaven and that he was OK with that. No, it wasn’t to organize a ball tournament in the field of dreams, but because God needed his angel back to help all the kids and the people who needed him the most, to watch over them with his loving heart and infectious smile.
I’m going to miss you Dad.
Hello everyone. My name is Carl and I am Ed and Gayle’s oldest child. Beside me are Colin and Conrad, my brothers.
I’d first like to thank everyone for being here today. It would mean a lot to my Dad. It is amazing the number of people he knew. It goes to show even with the size of the attendance here today. I remember we’d be in places, and there would be a call out: “Mr. Chala!” or “Ed!”. Being in the school system for 35 years helped a bit. There was one time in Florence, we were walking down the street towards the Duomo, and we saw Dad talking to someone, and it was Elmer Regal, my band teacher. We’d be in Safeway or at the Stampede and kids would approach him to say hello. “Hey, Mr. Chala”. And Dad would smile and get right into a conversation.
Dad was a very social person. He loved to talk with people. We could be waiting in line for a ride at an amusement park or on a bus in some foreign country and he would start talking to the person next to him. Although English was his only language, he managed to talk to someone with broken English or use hand signals.
You know, Dad really enjoyed being in the schools, the socializing with the teachers and being with the kids. After 35 years as a teacher, counsellor and consultant with the Calgary Separate School Board, he then went back as a substitute teacher or counsellor for another 15 years. Now that’s a passion! But he was also very good at what he did. I would often hear stories about working with the kids, trying to find solutions to help them on their journey, be it through school or a difficult home life. One interesting story happened with my brother Conrad. He recently sold his vehicle to a person who attended Bishop Grandin while my Dad was a counsellor there. He said his high school years were tough times for him, and that he often went to see Mr. Chala. He told my Dad he didn’t want to talk, so my Dad said “Do you want to shoot some hoops?” So they did, and this student went back to Dad often. And this isn’t an isolated case. On the McInnis and Holloway website where his obituary is located, there are many condolences that are just like this, from students or players he coached with similar memories.
Our Dad was great. He was always there for me and my brothers. He was there helping us when we wouldn’t get up to deliver the newspaper or flyers in the morning, or to take me to swim lessons when I was 12 at 5:00am, or drive me to hockey practice in Blackie for a 6:00am ice time (me still sleeping in the backseat) or drive me from my soccer game over to my hockey practice or to a marching band concert while I’m changing into my gear in the backseat. There was one time, my wife Carolyn and I were travelling from Calgary to the US border. We bought a trailer in the US that year since the dollar was at par. The trailer was being delivered to the border and we had a 2-hour window when the driver was at the border and we would pick it up. We stopped for gas in Lethbridge and realized we forgot our passports. We called Dad, and off he went, grabbing the passports from our house and meeting us on the highway halfway back. He did so much. Later, he would do the same for my kids. If Carolyn and I were tied up, he’d be there to take Paul to soccer, or pick up Marcus from school. He wouldn’t say no, he just made it work.
As many of you know, Dad loved to play sports and watch sports. Both Mom and Dad were very supportive of me and my brothers in our athletic pursuits. And they continued to come to our games well into our adult years. A few years ago while I was playing over-45 men’s soccer, Mom and Dad brought oranges for half time, to the amazement of my teammates. I think he was made Honorary Captain.
One trait I inherited from my Dad, which Carolyn loves, is lateness. Dad was always late. Conrad says he would tell Dad a time of when they needed him that was 10 or 15 minutes in advance of when they needed him. Mom tells the story that Dad was even late for his own wedding. Uncle Renaldo driving up to the church with Mom in the backseat, and Dad was running across the street to the chapel. Uncle Renaldo had to drive around the block to give Dad a few extra minutes. I recall we were always the last ones going into church, shuffling off to one side as the first song was being sung and Father walking towards the alter. It was endearing to me, since I knew he was coming, guaranteed he would be there, but it was always a few minutes late.
Because my Dad was always there for us, when I got older, I wanted to do things for him. I wanted to take him and Mom to places they hadn’t been, take them camping with their trailer, or just buy him dinner, which he was stubborn about, wanting to pay his share even though he was retired and I had a full time job. We have travelled to so many places together. And he didn’t mind too much where we were going, except one time he wanted to see if he could find relatives in Slovakia where Great Grandpa was from. Carolyn, Paul, Marcus and I went with Mom and Dad to a little mountain village near the border with Poland. Dad was thrilled we found some of his relatives, the Murinas, and their family even had musical talent like Dad - they were all violinists.
I wish we had more time to take him to more places.
Dear Gayle:
Thanks be to God for the gift of your beloved husband, Ed. I praise the Lord for giving me the opportunity to share with you and Ed, beautiful couple, such spiritual moments of prayers together with Marta and the zoomies. It took me just a moment to realize his beautiful soul. His smile, his sense of humor, and his beautiful pictures as a musician child will remain in my heart. I keep you and your family in my prayers. Love you dear sister in Christ, Nancy Patiarroy de Luna
Grandpa was the best grandpa anyone could ask for. The kindest man I’ve ever met who I never heard say a bad thing about anyone. I’d like to tell a few stories about my Grandpa.
I was in Grade 7 the first time Grandpa came into my class as a substitute teacher. He came in for Math, and he told me in advance he was going to be coming in. I remember walking into the classroom and he had a little smirk on his face and he was winking at me. I was an awkward young teen at the time in my first year of junior high so I hadn’t told anyone about my Grandpa coming in to sub. The first 20 minutes of class was a normal Math lesson. Then it came time to assign the homework for the next day. Grandpa writes on the board the questions in the text book and that “everyone has to have these done for tomorrow….unless your name is Paul.” Everyone in the class turned and looked at me. Some of my friends actually yelled out “WHAT?!? WHAT DO YOU MEAN HE DOESN’T HAVE TO?!?” And I’m just sitting there smiling so hard. Then Grandpa turns back around to the board and says “Oh yeah, I forgot to introduce myself. My name is Mr. Chala.” And the whole class in unison goes “oooohhh.” He purposely didn’t write his name on the board at the start of class like every other sub does, just so he could make that joke.
My brother Marcus, me, our parents, Nana and Grandpa went on many trips together. And I mean like all my trips were with Grandpa. I went to 14 countries with him. In 2013 we found ourselves in Costa Rica. We were just leaving the airport to find our rental van. Me and Grandpa were walking at the back of the group and I see him fiddling around with his digital camera. Right as we got up to the van, Grandpa, not looking where he was going, tripped hard on one of the parking blocks. Instead of putting his arms out to break his fall like a normal person would do, I watched him tuck his head and the camera and do a full somersault, somehow ending up right back on his feet. I go “Oh my gosh Grandpa, are you OK?!?” And without skipping a beat he looks down and goes “The camera is good!”, smiling afterwards. Now why is this one of my favourite stories to tell? Why am I telling this story about my Grandpa in his 70s doing gymnastics in a parking lot in South America? Well for one because it’s funny. I’m sure you all know how funny Ed was. But more importantly it shows how positive a person he was to the point of it being contagious. I’m pretty sure that fall hurt, but he wasn’t going to let it bring anyone down. Instead he would lift us up. Last thing he would want is my stressed out family who just got off an 8 hour flight to worry about him.
As you can see he had a big impact on all of our lives. He was always there for us and with us. Sports games, dance recitals, card games, school events, watching movies, camping, travel. We couldn’t have asked for a better Grandpa. He is my hero. I’ll never forget him. I love you Grandpa. You will be so greatly missed.
I think the thing that made me appreciate Grandpa more than anything is his willingness to do anything for us and with us, and when I think about this I could mention his love of water parks and rollercoasters and how he would be there whenever we needed him to drive us somewhere or pick us up, but two instances come to mind for me.
The first was in travelling through Italy where in the scorching heat of the summer, he, at 70 years old, did the stairs of the Duomo and the bell tower next to it which up and down is over 1700 steps, and if you’ve ever seen inside of those buildings you know that the steps are about a meter tall, but when we asked him if he wanted to come with us to the top, he would even say “I’ll race ya!” without hesitation.
The second instance involved him coming to one of my spring hockey games this year, which he loved to do whether it was soccer or volleyball or anything else, and he would also be as dedicated as that to every other grandkid. Anyways, before the match we had told him which team I would be playing on because it was the first spring hockey game of the season, and so coming to the rink he obviously expected me to be on that team, except the other team was way short of players and they had asked for subs from our team since it was a casual league and I decided to go. And because I didn’t have time to tell Grandpa, he had no idea which player I was until the end of the first period when I went over to let him know what happened, and wouldn’t you know it, he’s chatting with the only other guy in the stands! Who knows whether he knew him or not because it didn’t really matter, Grandpa would always go out of his way to make others feel welcome and comfortable.
What I remember about my Grandpa: When I was six years old he drew a large “X” on my garage and encouraged me to throw my ball at it. Eight years later I am still doing that but now I pitch for my school’s baseball team. How did he know that I had that potential? Grandpa always believed in me and encouraged me to follow my dreams. I will miss all my talks with him and being teased about girls, especially Clara. I will miss throwing the baseball around with him and having him cheer me on at my games. I will always remember him and love him.
What I remember about my Grandpa is that he loved to sing. He was the only person who would sing just with me. When I was here two weeks ago he was so sick but he still sang with me. We sang “You Are My Sunshine.” I will miss him so much.
I remember when my Grandpa came and watched me play baseball for the World Series in Mississippi. I love my Grandpa because he always played baseball with me and watched a lot of my games. Grandpa was also one of the nicest men I ever knew. When I grow up I want to be a good baseball player like Grandpa. I also want to be kind to people like Grandpa always was.
Grandpa was funny and always made me laugh. I liked to play with him and wrestle. I loved him alot and he loved me too.
My name is Terry McCoy and I would like to say a few words about my friend Ed Chala.
First on behalf of my wife Gayle and our family I would like to extend our sincere condolences to Gayle and the Chala family.
I met Ed in the Spring of 1992 when I volunteered to be a chaperone on the band and choir trip to Seattle. Ed.and I roomed together and spent part of each night in the motel that we were staying in monitoring the halls to encourage the kids to stay in their rooms following lights out.
This effort was only partially successful but no harm came to anyone.
During that trip our friendship developed and we found that we had many things in common. I joined the Band Parent Society a,nd volunteered or was drafted into becoming the Tour Direc or for the upcoming 1994 trip to Europe.
Over the next year Ed and I and our wives got to know each other. In July of 1993 Ed and I and two musical teachers travelled to Europe to plan the trip that would take place in the summer of 1994. We spent about two weeks travelling in England, France and Germany and put in place the plan that we would follow on tour.
In 1994 we took 155 students and 21 adults to Europe for three weeks. We travelled in planes, trains and busses through England, Germany and France. Ed was a great person to work with. His natural skills as a psychologist were put to use on several occasions stroking the bruised egos that came about from the crowded hot conditions when sometimes the busses would be late or the lack of air conditioning on the busses caused the adults, not the kids, to loose it. Although we were tired we had a great time. No one got lost, well for very long, and
we did not lose anyone or anything. Being more black and white than Ed I was ready to clobber more than one person. I told Ed more than once that without him I would likely still be in jail in Europe. Ed's natural jovial personality and people skills saved the day.
Gayle, Ed my wife Gayle and I travelled to Mexico and Hawaii together and saw each other socially over the years. We enjoyed going to the theatre and going out for dinner. Wherever we went Ed always met someone that he knew through Calgary Catholic. It was always easy to see the high level of respect that people had for Ed. He was a fine man who loved his family and especially his wife Gayle. Ed was very proud of his sons and his grandchildren, and I know that you will miss his laughter and presence.
I was proud to call Ed my friend and to have spent time with him. Recently I drove Ed to the Tom Baker Centre for his radiation treatment and he spoke about each of his boys and his grandchildren. Ed, I will miss you.
I am very sad to see of Ed's passing. I had the opportunity to work with Ed at the Calgary Catholic School District, and he was a wonderful mentor. I would often run into him at various events, like at St. Stephen's Church serving perogies....Ed was such a wonderful person, so kind and thoughtful. My sympathies on his loss. He is gone much too soon!
Sharon Blott
Deepest condolences to the entire Chala family. I have many wonderful memories of times spent at the Chala home. A safe and always welcoming place to hangout. Ed and Gayle always greeted us with a smile. I can’t imagine the void you are feeling at this moment, but hope that all of your incredible memories will help you each and every day. RIP Mr. C.
I was very sad to hear the news of Ed's passing. I have many great memories of seeing Mr. and Mrs. Chala at soccer games over the years, I'll always remember Ed as a true, friendly gentleman, who always had a smile on his face and some kind and insightful words to say. My sincerest condolences and deepest sympathies go to the entire Chala family. I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Lothar
Ed's obituary shone an accurate light on this honorable man who will be greatly missed and lovingly remembered by many who were lucky enough to know and work with him. He faithfully served God, family, colleagues and students of Calgary Catholic School District Condolences to Gail and family who understand that grief is the price of love. Having worked with Ed, I categorically say we have lost a true "mensch."
Phyllis Kalmanovitch Sandals
Punta Gorda, Florida
Sharon & Gerald Sheen
Condolences to Gayle, Carl, Colin and Conrad. We were deeply saddened to hear of Ed’s passing. He was truly athletic in all he accomplished.
We met Ed and Gayle when we rented in the same apartment block in 1969. Ed was the caretaker and collector of our month’s rent. Always enjoyed his personality and smile! Fast forward to 1970. We had moved to Canyon Meadows and a few years later, guess who our neighbours across the alley were? In the late 1970’s when disco was all the rage, hired an instructor, and Ed and Gayle were part of our group. Ed busted some pretty good moves with disco!! Happy Times! Onward with another move and snail mail became our correspondence before the computer!
Gone from our touch, but never our hearts!
Dear Gayle and family,
Theo and I are very shocked to hear about Ed's passing, we are so sorry for your loss, our deepest condolences.
I met Ed at Bishop Grandin Band Parent Association and remember our trip to Seattle with the band and choir clear as day. We had some wonderful get togethers with our families and stayed in contact even after the kids had graduated school.
Ed will be missed by many people.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hanny and Theo de Groot
I have had the great privilege and blessing to have crossed paths with Ed several times. He was a friendly face and colleague who worked across the hall in a school where we shared many chats and laughs. Later he stepped out of retirement to become a highly impactful and cherished teacher to my daughter. In the community we were both spectators of various youth sports.
Ed was a man who exuded kindness, joy and acceptance. He was an exceptional person who had lasting and positive impact on so many. He made the world a better place and he will be deeply missed.
My condolences to his family in your time of mourning.
May God Bless your family.
Brenda Straw
Gayle and Family
We are so sorry to hear about Ed’s passing and wanted to let you know that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Our sincerest condolences.
Hilarie Philp, Aletha Philp and Gemma Philp
Dear Gayle and Family,
As I’m sure it has been for many others, it’s been very difficult for me to reconcile with my friend Ed’s passing. I first met him 57 years ago (almost to the day of his passing) on a ball field in Fernie and I’ve enjoyed his company ever since – first as team mates, then house mates, and continuing as close long distance friends. Every time we got together the feeling was just like it was when we played with that magical 1964/65 Pincher Creek Chinooks championship team. Eddie was a great ballplayer, but mostly a fantastic person and I’m blessed and proud to have been his friend.
I have great memories of sharing the infield with him, seeing that smile as he smoothly side armed the toss to First, dished the ball to AJ for the DP or took it from him and made the turn, and the joy when we threw it around the horn. We always batted second and third in the lineup and depending on Reid’s feeling of the day, either one went first followed by the other. We were close in so many ways.
I’m pretty sure there’s a Field of Dreams and that he’s already joined our departed team mates – Hughie, John, Tony, Andre, Ken and Dave – and when my time and that of the rest of the team eventually comes we’ll meet again.
My sincerest condolences to you, family and friends. May he rest in peace. His memory will remain with all who he touched.
Much Love,
Terry Bidniak
Our heartfelt condolences to Gayle, Carl, Colin and families,
Sending prayers and our love to all of you.
Candy, Denise and family
We were so sorry to hear about a good friend that has passed away. The memories of ball and good times will always be with us.
Our condolences to you Gayle and your family, Our thoughts are with you .
Brian and Gale Wagner
Gayle, Carl, Colin, Conrad and families
Pat and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Ed was always there for family and friends, and will be sorely missed. Please accept our heartfelt condolence.
Brian & Pat Schultz
Dear Gayle and family. I’m very sorry to hear the loss of our cousin Ed. I always remember how Ed and yourself just loved visiting my Nana and Nono and my dad truly looked forward to your visits as well. I’m sorry we can’t make it up for the services. Our hearts ache and we send our love and warm thoughts your way
Dennis Jr, Cami and Harlee Reghenas
Dear Gayle, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Ed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May the healing gift of time and God's love be with you.
Fran & Ron Freiburger
Dear Gayle & Family
So sorry to hear of Ed's passing. It was a pleasure to work with Ed at Bishop Grandin.
Such a loving, caring man.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marilyn & Dale Potts
Dear Gayle and Family,
It has taken me a few days to absorb the news of Ed's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences as you reflect on the private moments you shared as a family and the many ways you and Ed shared time and talents and made the world a happier place.
Ed was a thoughtful and considerate listener and knew the right moment to provide support in meetings and challenging situations. I did not realize the extent to which Ed volunteered his time. I feel lucky to have known him, worked with him and felt his calming presence. May he rest in peace. Sincerely,
Georgia Dinning
Dear Gayle, I am so sorry for your loss. Ed was a very special man. Kind, caring, welcoming and always ready with a huge smile and hug. He will truly be missed. My prayers are with you and your family.
My deepest condolences to Mrs. Chala, Carl, Colin and Conrad.
Some of the fondest memories I have as a kid are those from soccer. Mr. Chala created such energy and confidence in those that played for him. While I was never the fastest or most talented, Mr. Chala always went out of his way to make me feel I was an important member of the team and it helped me build a confidence that didn't come easy as the short, skinny kid at that time in my life. Next to my parents, Mr. Chala was probably one of the strongest and most important influencers during my youth. He did a lot to teach me the value of team work, hard work and effort and commitment. I have fond memories of always having fun whether it was rain, sleet or sunshine because Mr. Chala always made you feel important and always kept you learning new things and took the time and demonstrated the patience few others would or could. He will be deeply missed by many.
In fondest memory,
Dean Morrison
Dear Gayle and family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Ed was an amazing colleague - always attentive to the needs of staff, parents and students alike. It was always a pleasure to see him walk through the door.
I will lift prayers for you during this difficult time - and ask God to bless you all with his healing Grace. May Ed rest in Peace.
In sympathy,
Joan Gauthier
We were so sorry to read of Ed's passing and extend our deepest sympathy to Gayle and their family. The years we knew Ed best were only a brief period of his wonderful life but we will always remember him for his smile, gentle manner and the coaching and guidance he freely gave to our son, Dean, and the other members of the Canyon Meadows soccer teams. It was experience, memories and respect they have carried with them throughout their lives. He will be missed by so many, may your memories bring you comfort in these difficult days.
Norm and Carol Morrison
Ed was an endearing soul to those who were fortunate enough to know him. He went beyond the call of duty at everything he engaged in, and his positive approach to life should be a reminder to all of us how important optimism is, and how fragile and short life will be for all of us.
He raised a wonderful family with Gayle at his side. May all of your family find strength in each other now and know his influence was profound for so many.
Gayle and Family, Pat and I are so sad to hear of Ed’s passing. What a wonderful soul you were married to for 53 years and all the wonderful memories Ed has left you with. Ed has a very calming presence about him and I always felt so good after chatting with him. Gayle you and your family will be in our prayers as you navigate your way through these difficult days ahead.
Pat & Irene McElroy
My deepest condolences to Gayle and family on the passing of a friendly, gentle and caring man. I am fortunate that I knew him.
Gayle and Family
So sorry to hear of Ed's passing. What an accomplished man, what more could one ask for I am sure that memories will be many and cherished My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Mike and Shirley Tomochko
On behalf of the Calgary Dinosaurs Soccer Club, we wish to express our sincere condolences to Gayle, Colin and Conrad on the passing of Ed. He was a true gentleman and proud supporter of his sons. Many happy memories. With respect.
Gordon Franson
Sincere sympathy to you Gayle and your family,
Ed was a very kind, caring, gentle, man who helped many students as a councillor.
He was someone who always had the time to listen & then encouraged the students.
Love & prayers,
Norm & Wilma Hagel
My heart and prayers go out to you Gayle and all of the boys. I haven’t seen Ed for many years, but I remember his smile, laugh and hugs very well. Spending time with him and your family during my teens and 20’s, I always loved being around Ed. He had such a zest for life and a bright spirit. What a huge loss for your family. Sending you my condolences.
Mel Quilliams
I extend my condolences to Gayle and the Chala family on the passing of Ed. He was and his family were ongoing members of the same schools and community as my family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed Marchand
My condolences to Mrs. Chala, Carl, Colin and Conrad. I had the privilege and honour of having Mr. Chala as my soccer coach for 6 years growing up with Colin. It was a time of my life I will never forget. Mr. Chala was really a second father to me over those years teaching me so much about what being a teammate really meant, about leadership, commitment, sportsmanship and yes, winning. I still remember him bringing out his "lucky" tie to the game we won to win provincials. I am the man I am today in large part to what I learned from Mr. Chala and I know many others that would say the same.
Sean Ulmer
My deepest sympathy to the Chala family especially Gayle and Marcus whose time at St. Bonaventure saw "Mr. Chala" coming in to guest teach. Ed was such a humble and kind man. May your fond memories of him comfort your family during this time.
Thoughts and Prayers
Noel McArdle
I first met Ed when I began my teaching career at St. Matthew School. From that time on we shared many life experiences together- working at many schools together, playing ball for the Lobbers, working bingos for Holy Spirit Parish, basketball Thursday nights and so many more. He was a dear friend and I will miss him. Art Raffa
My most sincere sympathy to the Chala Family. I worked with Ed in the counselling department at Bishop Grandin. Ed was kind, sincere and a true gentleman. May you take comfort knowing that he was a good man and take comfort in his memory.
Dianne Poland
Dear Family.. what an accomplished yet humble man. May Ed's family take comfort in the love he shared.
Rest in peace..
Julius Kiss.. colleague friend
So very sad to hear of Ed's passing. Many happy memories of working with Ed at Instructional Services as part of the "Slash Team".He was always patient, kind, humorous and caring towards parents, teachers and students.
Ed was a neighbor too in Canyon Meadows and Woodbine. Always had time for a chat about sports and family.
Our sincere condolences to Gayle, Carl, Colin, Conrad and their families.
Stephen and Lisa King
Sending my sincerest condolences to Gayle, sons Carl, Colin, Conrad, siblings Doug and Mary Kay, and all of their spouses and families. Ed was a wonderful cousin, an exceptional family man who was devoted to his career in the Catholic school system and who exuded his love for family and life in general. I know that he will be missed by many and I pray that you will all find comfort in your faith and in your wonderful memories of him.
❤️ Cousin Lois (Chala) Halko
My sincere condolences to you and your family. Ed was such a positive spirit that you could feel whenever he was around. I will always remember the smile he had when he would walk around the schools. He jumped in whenever and wherever he was needed and always made a bond with all the students around him. May he rest in peace with the angels.
I worked briefly with Ed during my time with Student Services. He left a lasting impression, always such a nice, kind man, and so professional. May his soul Rest In Peace, and may your family know he made a positive difference in his life. God bless you all at this time.
I had the good fortune of meeting Ed and his family at the beginning of my teaching career at St. Stephen School. He was a great role model and mentor as an educator, husband, father and friend. Ed will be dearly missed by the thousands of people he positively impacted during his life. May he rest in peace.
Ed was a valuable 'resource' to me in my teaching. I will never forget his trustworthy words of wisdom, always offered in the most GENTLE of ways. His listening skills were A plus - he understood that teachers just needed to vent more than find immediate fixes to challenges we faced. What a wonderful person. God bless his soul. God bless his family.
Dear Gayle and family,
We are so saddened to hear of Ed’s passing . He was a true gentleman in every sense of the way. He was always kind, always caring and always greeted everyone with a warm smile. You told Ed’s story so well in the obituary and truly captured the Ed we knew. We are sure that his vibrant spirit will live on in his children and grandchildren. May God bless you in this sad time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy Rob and Margie Ronca
Dear Gayle,
My deepest condolences to you and to all your family on the passing of Ed.
May he Rest In Peace.
You are all in my prayers. Maria Castano
I am so sad to hear that Ed passed away. He was truly a kind and wonderful person. He was such a great support to me when I first met him as a resource room teacher. Though many years have passed, he was always friendly and happy to chat when our paths would cross. Your family is in my prayers.
Ed and I shared a classroom at Saint Bonaventure. He was awesome to work with, great sense of humor liked to talk sports. I was very sad and shocked to hear about him passing. It was impossible not to like him, he was nice and pleasant to everyone. Offer my condolences to Chala family he will be missed.
Dear Gayle and family, I am so sad to hear of Ed’s passing. Your write up is spot on in sharing what joy he shared with students and colleagues. He was a true gentleman and so kind. I was fortunate to get to know him early in my career and have many memories of him. My heartfelt condolences to all of you.
Melina Akins
Dear Gayle and Family,
My deepest condolences to you and your family on the passing of Ed. I have fond memories of his welcoming smile, his kind words and his thoughtfulness toward all that he encountered. It was a joy working alongside him and sharing stories of family and sports. You are all in my prayers. Kevin Warriner
I worked with Ed as part of the Instructional Support Team and will always remember him as so gracious and welcoming. He was humble and kind and always willing to help others. We have lost a great man! A great family man, father, husband and friend. I remember the days playing basketball and no matter what Ed was always smiling. My thoughts and prayers are with you Gayle, kids and Oreo.
Take care
Patrick Lantz
When I was a special ed. teacher at St. Mike's, we chatted about all my kiddos. He always had their needs in mind. He often eased my mind as well. A caring and kind man that will be missed, my condolences to the family.
Ed was always a gentleman, warm and kind. My prayers and condolences to Ed’s family and all who miss him.
Ed was such a kind and welcoming man. I remember fondly playing bocce ball with him on the field behind your house at staff functions - we felt like we were part of your family. Gayle, my prayers are with you, your family, and Ed.
I knew Ed when I was a teacher at Calgary Catholic. He was such a warm, thoughtful person. He was automatically open and friendly, someone everyone admired and trusted.
My favorite memory is a of softball game at St. James. What fun! Ed was so fun, involved and encouraging, as always.
My sympathies,
Brenda Kiley
Sorry to hear of your loss, Gayle and family… had the pleasure to work with Ed a few times (especially during his subbing years), and I will always remember how good of a volleyball player he was…Not surprised to hear that he was such a good baseball player and all-around athlete! Always pleasant, and always very kind to me…. God bless
Erle Moshurchak
My heartfelt condolences to Ed’s family and friends. I had the privilege of working with Ed at Father Lacombe. Ed would always have a bright smile that lit up a room. He had presence. He will be dearly missed by teachers and students.
Mr. Chala was a kind a positive guide during my time as a student at Bishop Grandin. Then every time I ran into him throughout my teaching career he would always greet me like an old friend. He was truly a wonderful loving person who spent his days making every person feel special. He will be missed. Thank you Gayle for always being so kind to our kids at OLP when you opened the school. Keep shining your light and love on others.
I met Ed when he came out of retirement to be a counsellor at Father Lacombe in 2015-16. I was a second year teacher and ended up working with Ed a lot. What a kind, generous, assuring person he was. Calm, kind and generous with his time with both teachers and students. That summer after the school year was done, I ran into Ed at a slo-pitch game he and his son played against my team. By coincidence, I had crossed paths with his son years earlier when we both played for different Dinos teams at the UofC. Ed played shortstop and ran the bases himself... he would have been 70 or 71... amazing! I can hear his voice right now, and picture his smile, what a wonderful soul. I'm very saddened by his passing.
To his family, I offer my deepest sympathies and condolences.
Hughes Audet
My thoughts are prayers are with you during this time. Ed was an amazing educator, mentor, colleague and friend. He would often speak of how proud he was of his family and was an outstanding role model. I was so fortunate to have worked with him in numerous schools and learned a great deal from him based on his caring and compassionate approach with both students and staff. His sense of humor, warm approach and willingness to solve any problem will be missed by so many.
May he rest in peace.
John McDonald
Gayle and family, so sorry for your loss. My sympathies and prayers to you all. May he Rest In Peace.
Extending my deepest condolence to the family of Mr. Chala. Ed is a good friend, colleague and counsellor at Father Lacombe High School. I will missed him and all our talks particularly about our families while working at the Student Services. He never miss saying hello every time he did some substituting at the school. May the Lord be with Gayle and his children in this time of sorrow.
JEQUI ALDON
Deeply sorry for your loss of a beautiful human being. I had the privilege of working with Ed many years ago at St. Stephen's. May God's love bless your family with peace and care during this most difficult time.
Carmel White-Gloria
I had the pleasure and privilege to know Ed first through the teachers’ bowling league and later as a consultant when I was an administrator as well as through the the ATA. Ed was one of the nicest and kindest people I ever met and we will miss him dearly.
Dianna and I extend our deepest sympathies and condolences to Gayle and his family.
I am so sad to hear of Ed's death. I extend my condolences and prayers to his wonderful family. Ed covered 2 of my maternity leaves and I have such fond memories working with him as a consultant, as well. He was always the teacher playing sports with students at lunch. He also would be the first to volunteer for athletic staff events. Always so fun and full of life! He always spoke about his family with such love. What a legacy he has left everywhere! I know he has really impacted my life. Thank you Ed and may peace be with you! xx
Gayle and family, my deepest condolences on the passing of your wonderful husband and father. It was a true pleasure to work with Ed at Father Lacombe. I will always remember his contagious smile, great sense of humour and his kind and gentle soul.
With warm thoughts and prayers
Shelley Szautner
I am very sad to hear of Ed's passing. He was a mentor, a wonderful person and a great joy to work with. He is the kindest person I have ever meet. I know he will be very missed by everyone who knew him.
Very sorry to hear this sad news. My sincere condolences to Ed’s family. I had the privilege of knowing Ed when he was a councillor with CSSD. My memory of Ed was how kind and accepting he was of others. We often would have great conversations over lunch hours. He will be sorely missed by those who knew and loved him. R.I.P. Ed.
Mary-Lynn Perizzolo
Gayle and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you at this time. I was always thrilled when Ed would come by Our Lady of Peace, and I know that many of his ties continue to live on in my collection!
Dan Zeeb
From my childhood soccer coach to fellow teacher and ATA representative, Ed has been a part of my life since I was 5. His optimism, quick wit and strength of character will be missed.
To Gayle and Family,
Our deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved husband and father Ed.
He was such a bright light to all who had the pleasure of meeting him.
The Staff and Students of Father Lacombe High School
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