It was with great shock and sadness that we learned of Dave’s sudden passing. We became great friends while undergraduates in mechanical engineering at U of T in the early 60’s. Ever since, we never missed an opportunity to get together, whether sailing in Sarnia, skiing in Banff or fishing at the cottage on the Bunny Trail. Family was always an important part of those experiences and it was clear that Dave had an extended family whose love and closeness was truly extraordinary. There were always lots of people, lots of confusion, and lots of fun (not to mention lots of good food). He was a gentle, apparently unflappable, giant of a man with an infectious smile which could melt any heart. We were always made to feel part this wonderful family. He was much loved and will be sorely missed.

Judi and I extend our sincere condolences to his family and all those who were blessed to have had Dave as a friend.

Dave and Judi Weaver

To Mike & Family,

On behalf of Sonia, myself and the rest of the ICTC Team, our deepest condolences on the loss of your Father. May you and your family find strength and solice in each others love at this time of grief. Based upon what I have read, your Dad was a great man that left his legacy in his loving children and his grand-children: I am saddened by the fact that I never had the opportunity to meet him.

On Behalf Of Team ICTC.

We met Dave and Diane in 1972, when both our families had just moved to Coquitlam, BC. Missing our extended families we became each others extended family, celebrating Christmases and birthdays and picnicking together until they moved to Calgary in 1975. Subsequent visits always felt as if we had never been apart. We will always remember their warmth and kindness and treasure their friendship. We were sad to loose Diane in 2002 and now sad and in shock at Dave’s sudden death. It came too soon for someone so full of life.

Our sons Richard and David join us in sending condolences to Dave’s friends and family and in particular to Sheila, Kathy, Mike and Jayne.

We were saddened to hear of Dave’s untimely passing. We always enjoyed our visits with him and the family at the “Bunny Trail Hotel”. Our sincere sympathy to all of you.

It was a shock to hear of Dave’s passing. He was a great support to me at the Ballroom Dance Club the past 3 years. He will be sadly missed. My deepest sympathy to Karen and his family. I hope this poem will bring you each some peace.

Tomorrow Without Me

When tomorrow starts without me,

and I’m not there to see;

If the sun should rise and find your eyes

all filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn’t cry

the way you did today, while

thinking of the many things,

we didn’t get to say.

I know how much you love me,

as much as I love you,

And each time that you think of me,

I know you’ll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me,

please try to understand;

that an angel came and called my name,

and took me by the hand.

But as I turned to walk away,

a tear fell from my eye,

For all my life, I’d always thought

I didn’t want to die.

I had so much to live for,

so much yet to do,

It seemed almost impossible

that I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,

the good ones and the bad,

I thought of all the love we shared,

and all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,

just even for a while,

I’d say goodbye and kiss you

and maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized

that this could never be,

For emptiness and memories,

would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things

I might miss come tomorrow,

I thought of you, and when I did,

my heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven’s gates,

I felt so much at home.

God looked down and smiled at me

from His great golden throne.

He said, “This is eternity

and all I’ve promised you.”

Today life on earth is past

but here it starts anew.

So when tomorrow starts without me,

Don’t think we’re far apart,

for every time you think of me,

I’m right here, in your heart.

Nanci McLennan, Calgary

Our hearts go out to our daughter-in-law, Jayne and her siblings, Kathy & Mike who are grieving the loss of yet another loving parent. What a terrible shock. We will miss Dave’s always warm welcome and wide talents. We are thinking of you, Sheila and the love and companionship you shared with your brother. Sarah and Kaitlin will cherish memories of Grandpa Daffin’s love and projects and we feel sad that Peter and Jill’s experiences with him have been cut short.

Love, Carol & Sandy