I am so very sorry to discover your loss. I too lost my beloved Husband after his courageous battle with Kidney Cancer. He passed 8 months almost to the day of his diagnosis (Feb 12). He received the news a week after his birthday. I was touched by how you will spread her ashes. I am preparing to spread my Husbands ashes this June when he would have turned 55. I am looking forward to the tree planting Memorial as well this Fall. My beloved passed on Unit 47 at the Foothills Hospital. He loved the artist Carl Brenders, so I am planning to donate his favorite painting “Kalahari” to the unit, to be hung on the wall where all will see and enjoy it, as they get off the elevator, in his memory. May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead.