Condolences
Hi, for those of you who don’t know me, I’m Tristan, Reg and Pat’s first granddaughter.
As all of you already know, my nanny was an amazing woman. Her strength, beauty, and her kind heart are beyond compare. She always greeted us with a smile and a warm hug every time we saw her, I really loved that about her. From when we were little kids to us becoming young adults, she was always just as excited to see us grandchildren and so interested in what was going on in our busy lives. We all knew how much she loved her family she never let us forget it, she never missed a birthday, or a Christmas and cheered us on in our ringette and hockey games. As I said, she was extremely loving, there was always room for family; like when my aunt Tori and my cousin Sadie joined us for Christmases nearly 8 years ago, nanny always made sure that each of them were taken care of and had an amazing time. And also when I brought home a boy, she always treated Spencer with love and kindness and welcomed the expansion of our huge Earle family.
She truly is the kindest person I’ve ever been lucky enough to have in my life but she was a stubborn woman. That’s Penton blood for sure. When she was diagnosed with cancer two years ago, we all knew she wasn’t going anywhere without a fight and she proved us right time and time again. The strength and the determination that she had is truly incomprehensible. With the curveballs that she was faced with, none of us thought that she would go as far as she did, but like I said, she was stubborn. There were some really difficult times but she never let it break her spirit, her same old Newfie self, bursting with wit, teasing Reggie and cracking jokes. I can honestly say that she beat cancer, she won. She never let it dampen her vibrant personality, or take away from her happiness.
I can’t say enough good things about Nanny, so many good memories to share, from when she should let all the grandkids blow out her birthday candles all together, to her amazing Christmas cookie platters, to her wanting our terrible school photos. She was proud of our family and man are we proud of her. She fought hard, and we all hope that now she can rest and find peace watching Poppy, her sons and her grandchildren from up there.
From Skylar Earle:
Hi, everybody.
I’m Skylar, Reg and Pat’s granddaughter.
I wanted to speak to you all today so that I could celebrate this incredible woman who I’m lucky enough to call my grandmother, who will be dearly missed by everyone in this room and beyond.
I always loved doing mundane things with my Nanny; chatting with her about school, watching The Price Is Right on TV, and when she and Poppy would come to watch our ringette games. She was so smart and so funny, she was – and is – my idol.
Most of my memories of her are from when we would all go over to their place on Christmas morning, and each grandkid had a pile of gifts next to our labelled stockings. And of course, let’s not forget the awesome advent calendars that she’d put together for all five of us. She was always so happy, watching us as we tore open our presents and showed our parents the armload of chocolate that we got. She loved being the reason why other people smiled, which is the trait of a truly kind person. And as we’ve been going through photo albums in the past couple of weeks, in almost every photo she – along with everyone around her – was laughing and smiling. And that ability to make other people happy is something that I will always remember, and something that I will always strive to do.
There’s lots of little things remind me of my Nanny, now; her favourite TV shows; pretty much any puzzle, because she’d often have one out on the table; the song Jingle Bell Rock from that ridiculous singing Christmas tree that they’d have out every year. The list goes on. I count myself really lucky to have these small reminders of her everywhere. She left a piece of herself in so many areas of my life, which makes me really happy. Because even if she’s not here in person, she’s still with me wherever I look.
And I really hope that wherever she is now, she’s watching her granddaughter trying not to stumble over the little speech she wrote, reading it in front of a room full of people, just trying to be able to put it into words how much I love her.
Youtube link for the photos shown at the service
https://youtu.be/nW5WxXGlaY8
So many fond memories of a beautiful person, inside and out. I remember the many trips to Gambo when the girls were young and all the laughs we had. One memory that stands out is when Patsy got engaged to Reg all those years ago. I got up earlier than she did the following morning and noticed that her hand was literally stuck in the air. I looked at my sleeping sister and did not know what to think. I quickly woke her once I saw the diamond glistening in the light. After offering congratulations and admiring the ring, I told her that she had been sleeping with her hand in the air. Not one for being in the spotlight even then, she quickly denied it, but we both knew how proud and happy she was.
Another one is the evening we were enjoying the vodka a little too much, and she insisted Sean put the fan on to cool her down, only to be told many times that it had been on all along!
Every inch a lady, a true friend to all, a wonderful Mother, Grandmother, Wife, and sibling, she will be forever in our hearts.
Love,
Sheila
To the Earle Family,
Although I hadn't had the pleasure of spending time with Pats since we both married, I always treasured her as a good friend. Our school years left me with the best memories of a true friend and someone who was always happy and treated everyone with the utmost respect. Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your wife, mother, grandmother and friend.
Rosemary (Janes) Adams
It is with heavy hearts that we send condolences to Reg, Dwayne, Shawn and their families. We were great friends from the moment we met and we shared many good times at the Lions Club. Our favorite memories are of sharing meals and laughs at each others houses. Rest in peace dear friend.
Peggy & Max
Trish, It with a heavy heart that I send this tribute. Your beautiful smile will always linger in my memory. What story or memory can I share about you, it so hard to just pick one, when we have had a life time of sharing.
From growing up in Grand Falls to the streets in St. John's/Gambo/Bay Roberts, the many memories we experienced will never be forgotten. Trish, it was a beautiful journey.
My favorite memory goes back to when I was getting married. The wedding gift that she gave to Frank and I is a gift that We are still using today, and we have been married for 51 years. Trisha gave us a service set of large spoon, ladle, spatula, spoon with holes in it, a big fork, and a potato masher. In order for her to obtain this gift, she had to collect points to get
the set. This set has always been treasured, but even more so now.
Life's journey is done. No longer will we walk earth's pathways together.
Somewhere a journey begins at the end of the worldly existence we know.
Love you Trisha, we will meet again
Mary
One of the most favourite parts of my day is coming down to the kitchen to the smell of coffee brewing. It takes me back to waking up on Bareneed Road, where I have so many fond and loving memories. The Young & the Restless, Sally Jesse Raphael and the Toronto Blue Jays. My first dog and cat, weddings at the Lions club and Easter weekends, to name a few. I am so fortunate and grateful to have been able to make memories in my young adult life with Aunt Trish and Uncle Reg as well. They took me all over the city of Calgary to make sure I had a maternity style winter coat. Aunt Tish was like a second mother to me, She will be forever remembered and forever missed.
xo
Stephanie
Patsy: It is with a heavy heart that I compose this farewell message. As the second girl and the second boy in the family, you and I developed a special bond early in our lives. That bond continued and grew as we struggled through the teenage years. It diminished as we grew apart and marriages and families filled our lives. However, when we did get together it was as if we never parted and the bond flamed anew. My fondest memory was when you, Reg and the boys stayed with us in Ottawa and we all went on a camping trip together. Good memories seem to endure forever.
Good-bye Patsy. I miss you and will always love you.
Cyril
Pats will be missed forever; always loved; always remembered, with many shared memories with family and friends.
Joe and Jennifer
So saddened to hear the news of Pat’s passing. Will always remember her smile and infectious laughter. Thinking of you Reg and all the family during this difficult time. Condolences to you all.
Deeply saddened to hear of Pat’s passing. Many wonderful memories of my days at the Lions Club growing up. I certainly learned a lot while I was working there and met some wonderful people. Pat and Reg were 2 of the best!
Deepest sympathy to Reg and all the family. May your many beautiful memories bring you comfort now and in the days ahead. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Susann Fifield
and Cal & Irene Chipman
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