Condolences
Barry ....you Old Scoundrel in SPADES, It was a new experience to witness a parade of a life on Zoom,You never showed up?
Since we were always. Nose to nose and testing the strength of truth in and around our opinions in all Honesty
So you win,again. I did not get closure seeing your living again by the power of T,V and P,C,'s, Well that is Llfe-like as is today..
You were the Social Engineer and me the Pragmatist. Always using our thoughts but in all Honesty. Just keep on touching base
In many I still need your opinion,whatever it is. By the way to find you.?? Which Button did you press on Departure?
Please\ Keep touching base and sometime we can play catch again. By the way? Which button.did you press? Up or Down???
Today was a beautiful and touching tribute to your dad, grandad, uncle, and friend. Our thoughts and prayers to all of you -- Barrett, Vivian, Justin, Rachel, Indra, Tiea, Gabriel, Laird, Vitaly, Cathy, Rob, Joe, Kevin, Ben, Matt, Amy, Emma, Paige, Finn.
by sea to the quilters’ guild
an island is a precious thing
build of stone
covered in fur
and green moss
its curves like porcupine quills
trees to the water’s edge
the current holds us back as we travel
to the quilters’ exhibit
in mid afternoon we arrive at the marina
and Miner’s Bay
beach the boat
amid patches of midden shells, algae, and grass
our landing leads to a meeting
with others on the pub deck
when the quilts are placed on the pews
and hung from the rafters
they become a parade of generations of love
the church
houses the quilts
and the island
harbours
my love for you
as the kelp
floats on the sea
(revised slightly from by sea to the quilter’s guild in Leaving That Island, 2008)
Alexandra Pett
(Abbot’s View Press and Island View Paper Works, Pender Island, BC)
Condolences to the family. Barry was my teacher at Mount Royal in 1969. He was a great teacher. He also was the brother to Joe
which was my sister Dawne's husband. I really enjoyed his humour when the family got together. Rest In Peace Barry.
We knew Barry over many years. We cross-skied in the winter, hiked and sailed in the summer. We enjoyed his conversation and interest in others in social gatherings at our place. We appreciated his political work and progressive ideas. He was a true Calgarian and a thoughtful Alberta. We will miss him.
Our condolences to his family.
Julia and George Melnyk
Condolences to the entire family and to Jackie Flannigan on the passing of Barry. My mother (Sheila Ockley) worked with him for years at the Mount Royal Faculty Association.
Hi Barry
Sorry, I can’t seem to refer to you in the past tense. The memories I have of you 37 years ago was sleeping in the same bed as Cathy in your Erlton House (not allowed at Cheryl’s) during our Christmas visits and enduring the hades-like temperature thrown off by the wood burning stove in a room crammed with people all the while watching Scott hold court. In the past ten years, I’ve come to appreciate your sense of humour, your less than subtle approving/disapproving facial expressions, and being a part of your circle. I always felt included which is the best thing a son-in-law could hope for.
Love Robert
Hello, Barrett and Vivian. I was saddened to read of your dad's passing in the Globe and Mail today. He was a man of remarkable achievement but, then, I guess you already know that. Vicki joins me in extending heartfelt best wishes to you both in this difficult time, and to all your family members. We hope you find comfort in a lifetime of treasured memories. Warmest regards. -- Terry McConnell & Vicki Charron, Edmonton.
Dear Wilda, Dick and I send our condolences, with love, Carol Johnson
As Barry's wife during the years in which he served in the Alberta Legislature, I know how dedicated he was to his constituents and how committed he was to the New Democratic Party and the values of both socialism and equitable distribution of wealth in all ways possible in Canadian democracy.
Barry's zest for life was amazing. He enjoyed meeting new people, teaching students, connecting with colleagues, and discussing both political and social issues. He did not hesitate to speak out or express his perspectives.
Of course, the most exciting time was when he got elected for the first time. His first meeting with the campaign team was typical of the way he taught and led. We all sat in a circle and each person spoke; when everyone had contributed ideas, he talked in a low key, friendly, and even casual way. His campaign manager was a U of C student. I helped him then and at other times in writing pamphlets, but he knew exactly what he wanted to say to the people in Forest Lawn.
Calgary in those years was not receptive to people on the left. But the arrival of the New Democrats in the Legislature was a break through that involved a lot of idealism and hope for social change.
Actually, I was often frightened by the possibility of violence against us, either in the constituency or in the place where we lived, his beloved Erlton Street, with the Elbow River rustling at the bottom of the garden.
I believe that Barry made an important contribution to the history of Alberta and of Calgary. He was in many ways a revolutionary but he believed in family ties.
Best wishes to everyone in Barry's family at this time of loss.
Alex (Alexandra Pett)
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