Dear Family;

Arleyta and I would like to give you our condolences on the passing of Ruth. Ruth was a good friend to us when we were involved at Valleyview and was a great person. She will be missed.

Ian Lewis and Arleyta Friesen

Condolences to the family of Ruth Storey. Ruth was a faithful supporter of the Holy Cross Alumni and will be missed by the Alumni.

-Dolores Bramall,

(on behalf of the Alumni)

Dear Storey family,

Your dear Mom/Grandmother popped into my life at different times over the years, through mutual friend Eleanor Milliken for example, then when she went to Amica I had other friends there so gain felt her big energy, smiles and fun. Then at Ellen's grad, lo and behold, as Akaya's Grandma, I met her again. That event brought about some fun crib games Grandmothers against the girls. Such fun as I got to know vivacious Ruth even better.

You will miss her so much. She loved her family immensely, always eager to talk about all of you. May those happy memories of family gatherings gradually bring you peace and comfort for a life well lived.

-Pat Blair

To the Storey Family,

We were so saddened to hear of Ruth's passing. We remember her as a thoughtful and generous person, who always had a smile and a laugh at the ready. She radiated love, compassion and kindness and was such a lovely person to spend time with. We remember her cookies and especially her highly sought after Halloween popcorn balls!

We will take comfort in those wonderful memories and know that you will have many, many more that you will take comfort from as well. Our thoughts and prayer go out to you all.

With Love and Friendship,

Therese, Kent, Natalie and Conrad

Our family sends their deepest sympathy and condolences to Linda, Paul, Janet and their families. I first met Ruth at my husband's memorial service in 2007. Although I was a stranger to Valleyview, I booked the service there after meeting the minister, who kindly agreed to my request for a candle service (with a hundred candles!) when so many other churches had turned me down, quoting the potential fire hazard. Ruth and her friends from Valleyview attended the service even though they did not know me or my family. I was touched by their kindness and support for me, a total stranger at the time. That experience was the beginning of a lasting and fond friendship. Ruth and I enjoyed many wonderful times together over the years since then, and I am heartbroken at her passing. She was a grand lady, full of love and kindness, always with a sparkle in her eyes, lots of hugs and such an amazing positive outlook. I will miss her.

You can shed tears that she is gone,

Or you can smile because she has lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back,

or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left.

Your heart can be empty because you cannot see her,

or you can be full of the love that you shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,

or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember her and only that she is gone,

or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,

or you can do what she would want:

smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

Patricia Udokang

To the Storey family:

John and I are so sorry for your loss.

Your mom brought such joy into the lives of everyone she came in contact with, with her big smiles and hugging arms. I know this, since I was one of the recipients of her hugging arms and big smiles.

And her words were always encouraging.

She will be missed by us all at Valleyview.

And every time I enter Valleyview Church, she will still be there in soul, since she is so much a part of the very fabric of Valleyview, in our Hospitality, and our Vibrant Faith in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.

Cheryl Gill

I just smile when I think of Ruth. She was a member of the Calgary Multicultural Choir for many years where I am still a member. Ruth was always the most cheery, friendliest person at our weekly rehearsals. She loved and embraced life and all it had to offer, even when she moved into a retirement residence where she continued to enjoy everything the residence had to offer. When she no longer was in the choir, she came to all our concerts. And when our choir sang at her residence, she came with a gang of her new friends. True to form!

My husband Tom also sings in the Calgary Multicultural choir. We both send our heartfelt condolences to Ruth's family.

God made no two flowers alike; no two baby birds the same; no two stars identical; no one else like you - what an incredible creation, dear Ruth was. With deepest sympathies.....

The Storeys were one of our first neighbours when my family (the Adlingtons) moved to our acreage in 1957. I have so many memories of Ruth as she was a second mum to me for many years. She was always so kind and welcoming. The family connection remained strong when my brother Bob married her best friend Bobbie's daughter Cathy. My deepest condolences to Linda, Paul, Janet and their families. She leaves a big empty space.

Kathy Krahulic

I first met Ruth & David when I started attending the original Valleyview little white church, on the corner of 17th Ave & 69th St SW back in 1986. Even though I was only 26, I fondly remember Ruth & Bobbie welcoming me with open arms and hugs, and Valleyview soon became my church family.

After my daughter Amanda-Jean was born & baptized, I approached Ruth and asked if she would do me the honor of being her surrogate Grandmother in the west as I had no family here, being from Ontario. There was no hesitation at all, just a hug then I asked what she should call her, and she said ‘Grandma Ruth’. From that point on, Ruth was not only a mentor to me who took me under her wing with wisdom, love and advice, but she truly did embrace being Grandma Ruth with my daughter in every way.

We sang in the choir together for over a decade, fundraised for the new church build and shared many laughs, hugs and social times at the house. Her cooking was top notch and she’d always insist on sending us home with a plate of goodies.

I have so many fond memories, but some of the best are of her & Bobbie together - they were a force to be reckoned with. They inspired, supported and unconditionally loved me like mothers. My 40th birthday was better because of them helping me host, keeping me calm with a house full of people - how did they always make that look easy? But my most vivid favorite memory will forever be the picture I took of them driving away from the church parking lot in the white hot rod giggling like two teenage best friends. It was a true moment in time.

My sincerest condolences to the entire family. I’m truly blessed for having her in my life and will treasure her always.

Until we meet again.

Ruth was an amazing lady - always kind, always cheerful, and filled with more energy than the Energizer Bunny. Her passing is a loss for everyone who knew her, but having known her is a gift one can only cherish.

We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Ruth.

She was a amazing woman and left a lasting impression upon us. She had a infectious laugh and a bright twinkle in her eyes.

We are very grateful for the little time we were able to spend with her.

The service was beautiful, I am sure she would be very proud of her kids and grandkids that spoke.

Please pass along our condolences to Janet, Hailey and my brother Joe.

Sending everyone lots of love and healing.

Mary Lynn Hogg, Andrew Krista and Kurtis.

Many years ago, Ruth would pick me up from my house and take me with her to choir practice at Valley View Presbyterian Church. I was only 12 or so. She always told me she loved driving in the snow when her car would fishtail because it was so much fun. We would slide and laugh all the way up the hill to the church. It makes my heart happy to remember her beautiful smile. Such a wonderful memory of a kind, wonderful lady. My deepest condolences to the family.

Chealsey Leschuk (Butler)

The Wallace family shared "the hill" with the Storeys for 41 years. There could not have been better neighbour's. Ruth was always there for us, and our neighbours. So many soups, so many cookies, so much unconditional love. Will miss her so much till we meet again. Hard to let her go...

My colleague Marina and I were the Community Relations team at Amica Aspen Woods when Ruth moved in. At the time our office was in the lobby and Ruth would pass by daily with a cheerful good morning! She brought such positivity and joy to our world and became such an integral part of the success of the community. It was an honor to know such an amazing woman! Bless her soul and all who loved her. May she Rest In Peace knowing she left the world a much better place. Deepest condolences to her beloved family.

-Barbara Marshall

We are so grateful to have had the honour and privilege of knowing Ruth and having her a part of our life. She would always light up a room, whenever she entered with her bright smile and laughter. Ruth was my mom Bunny’s best friend for years. They shared so many wonderful experiences, so many laughs and just an amazing friendship together. My mom was truly blessed to have her as a friend. Ruth knew so many people and had such a wide knowledge of the history of Springbank. It was so interesting to hear all the stories she would tell. I was so fortunate to be asked by Ruth to ride her horse Toy. I was lucky enough to ride and compete with her over the years. In later years, Ruth was instrumental in me being able to own a horse of my own. I am truly grateful. Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this very difficult time. She will be dearly missed by all that knew her. She is in our hearts and in our thoughts as is the Storey family, always.

My deepest condolences.

Ruth was a shining light every Friday morning. Always happy, and positive. Her weekly visits to the Amica salon where always filled with the best stories about her family, and how proud she was of them. She will be missed by many.

Carrie Coupland

Our Dear Auntie Ruth

Always a smile and a hug.

A kick in the backside in the kindest way when deserved.

First with a new blanket when new family additions were born.

Sister to Mom

To many memories to mention

And none will be forgotten

Cause she is unforgettable and will be deeply missed.

Dean & Maria Wells & Family

Holding each of you in my heart in the sadness of Ruth's death and in deep gratitude for her remarkable life ... She lived life with a kind and full heart and made such a loving imprint on every life she touched ... In the crater carved by sadness, I hope there will be comfort in the memories that will be with you always ... with grief for her death and gratitude for her life,

Nancy (Steeves)