I was almost 10, in 1973 and the only little kid at Diana & Frank’s wedding party at Emmy & Dragi’s house. I loved hanging out with my sisters, which meant I also got to hang out with your Mama - just a bit. She was so beautiful that day - radiant and gorgeous. Her brothers were giving her guff about her dress and she was so self conscious. My sisters took her aside to reassure her that she was lovely. I suppose that little vignette illustrates just how sophisticated and elegant Ellie was. She was a graceful Sister and Aunt. She always tried to get past the family drama and find the joy within the family. She took time with all her nieces and nephews and was loyal to her siblings. Her golden rule was: if you do not have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. My favourite celebrations always included your clan: big city perspective with such a gentle appreciation of family. She was loved well and she loved well. My condolences to all of you

I know we have all told you how much your mom meant to us on our Cousins Facebook page, but I can’t quite get her out of my mind. I keep looking at this photo and your words.

You three should be so proud of how you looked after your mom when she needed it most. One thing is certain, she did a great job of raising you.

Sending you all love and big hugs.

Elvera and I were friends from 1970- neighbours and soul sisters. We never lost touch . In reading the wonderful obituary and remembering her life, I am so grateful to have been a part of her life.

Will miss you my friend . Condolences to Rob, Tony and Jennifer et Al. Jerry and Diana I know greeted her and helped her home.

Tony, Jennifer, and Rob, we are thinking of you guys. Elli sounds like she was quite a girl - strong and brave, and also lots of fun! We wish we had had an opportunity to get to know her.

Hugs to you all. Corey & Carol

Beyond lucky to have had such an amazing grandmother to look up to. You will be missed everyday grandma. Love Tyler

Rob, Tony and Jenn, we are so sad to see her passing, yes she is now free of the pain, and reunited with Jerry and Di, but she will be missed here. She made life better for everyone she touched.

Hugs from Al & Jan