Condolences
July 9, 2023
Toronto
My condolences over the passing of such a kind man. In Simcoe, Tim was an extra older brother to me. He taught me what side of tree had the best apples. He let me ride tailgate on the ancient green Godfrey Orchard truck. He laughed a lot then, and I am not at all surprised to hear that he continued to do so throughout his life. - Paul McGrath
My family moved to Willow Park in the mid-1980s, landing on Willard Road where my parents still live. As a kid, Mr. Godfrey was the friendly giant just a few houses down, always present with his deep hearty laugh and always willing to lend a smile to your day whether you were walking home from school or riding your bike or skateboard up the street. I remember sitting in a big canoe in his backyard in the summers, listening to stories as he rocked my brother, sister, childhood neighbors, and I back-and-forth in time with the adventure he was unfolding. As my siblings and I grew up and moved away to start our own families I often only saw Mr. Godfrey at my parent's annual Canada Day party where it was always a highlight to spend time catching up with him, but he would always remember the stories he told us in that canoe like it had happened earlier that day. He carried a feeling of security and peace with him no matter how many years had passed, and when you were in his company you felt you were the center of the world. And no matter how many people were in attendance every July 1st, it was hard to miss Mr. Godfrey's laugh that at some point would draw you close to his gentle nature.
Mr. Godfrey was kind, caring, personable, and made you feel safe and important. As a kid he was the type of grown up you were convinced could perform miracles, and I feel privileged to have known him. He brought good to that small street in Willow Park--much as I imagine he did the same to everyone he encountered outside the little neighborhood we had when we were younger--and I remember him fondly and always will. Friendly giants are the best kind of giants, and I'm so grateful Willard Road had Mr. Godfrey as its own.
Graydon
I knew Tim as a member of the Calgary Collector’s club, and he was a joy to be around! He was always to be seen with a smile on his face, and he shared his enthusiasms with all. Such happiness is always a loss and Tim will be missed by so many!
I worked with Tim at Union Oil. He was something of a mentor to me in regard to the coal business. Given his energy and his humour, he was always a favorite to work with. The world needs more Tims.
Tim and Elaine are my sister's Godparents and I remember loving to visit them when they lived near us in North Vancouver. I'm not sure if, as a young girl, I noticed much Mr. Godfrey (well, he was an adult so not very interesting) but I certainly remember how fun it was to visit their family home. From the rabbits in the backyard to the player piano, everything was a marvel and something fun to explore or do and the Godfrey kids were FUN to play with! Later, as a young woman, we visited the family after they had moved away to Calgary. It was then that I got to know Tim (I was a teenager by then so had to talk to the adults!). I remember his twinkling eyes, his laughter. His great stories. And...he changed my life. Thanks to Tim's amazing collection of puzzle toys (many in the bathrooms, I recall), I am addicted to puzzle toys of all sorts; the more difficult, the better. I'm glad I had a chance to meet him and, to the family, I'm very sorry for your loss. What an awesome dad/husband/brother you had!
I had the pleasure of working with Tim for about 8 years in Fuel Supply at TransAlta and sharing the occasional drink at Bottlescrew Bill's with him. I am sorry to hear of his passing. My condolences to his family.
My most sincere condolences to Tim's family and friends. I met Tim numerous times while working with his daughter, Carolyn. What a wonderful man! He gave much to the community and often supported our non-profit organization. He will be missed - a true gentleman! My best wishes are with all of you during this time.
Chris Mahoney
A scouting trip to Hawaii in 1978 to take part in a Woodbadge Training Course - the formation of the Nene Patrol and a lot of learning and fun times. Ever since this wonderful event, the Nene group of scouters and their wives and families have kept in touch. We have seen our children grow up and have their own children. It is so sad when we say goodbye to another nene bird. We will miss you Tim and all the good times we have shared. We send our most sincere condolences out to Elaine and the whole family. You are now flying with the angels Tim and I am sure you will be there to include us in your heavenly flock when it is our time to soar.
Frank and Phyllis Snider
My most sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved husband, father, and grandfather. I will always remember Tim for his kindness, his wonderful laugh, and his stories. It is clear that he was a true gentleman that touched the lives of so many. I remember him as a dutiful grandfather at cubs and beaver scouts meetings, sharing his knowledge about how things work with the wide eyed boys who were amazed by everything he taught them. May the wonderful memories you have of him sustain you as you grieve this monumental loss; our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bill, Maureen and family. My deepest condolences on the passing of your dad.
- Lori (Millar) Goerzen
It's 0730 on a crisp Calgary morning (written April 29). I just got back from a long walk and, I guess, needed some reflection time after reading the news about Tim early this morning. I first met 'Mr. Godfrey' in 1975 when the family moved to Calgary. Over the years, I spent many hours in the Godfrey home - Christmases, weekend drop-ins to record music and just times for a chat. It is those conversations that I remember most fondly. Tim gave me much helpful wisdom and advice which impacted me in a very positive way much more than he ever likely thought. He was like a father figure to me and for that I am blessed. The Godfrey family was always one that I thought 'got it right' - much love and kindness always exhibited to each and every one. That is a testament to Tim and Elaine, an example I will always treasure. Back to my walk for a final moment. The song on my playlist as I began was Lewis Capaldi's 'Wish You the Best'. Although about a failed relationship, it had a deeper meaning for me this morning - a message about missing and loving someone, and about wishing them well. 'Mr. Godfrey', I surely wish you the best on your journey.
James Millar
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your dear husband and father. I know that your family is very close and he was very special to all of you. I am disappointed to have not had the opportunity to meet Tim. Trust in the wonderful memories you share and lean on each other to work through your grief. Know that extended family and friends are here for your support when you're ready.
Carlene and I are very saddened to read of Tim's passing. He was the kindest of men and will be deeply missed. Our sincerest condolences to his family. May your wonderful memories of Tim lift your hearts.
Carle and Bruce Chrumka
Dear Elaine and Family
Our hearts were saddened today when we heard of Tim’s passing. We are so sorry for your loss! Tim was such a special man and we always enjoyed the happy times we spent with both of you. Tim was a dear friend, had a wonderful sense of humour, and was one of God’s most honourable and respected men. I could always hear his wonderful baritone among the voices when we sang at Glee Club. He will be fondly remembered and sadly missed by so many. If we can help in any way, anytime, please don’t hesitate to call. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Geri and Elliott (Urquhart)
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