Condolences
Sorry for your loss. Nanay has been a good caring mother with no complaints to even how small or big the sacrifice really sa lahat. Patient and endured hardship with a smile. You see her always smiling. Love you all. Sayang I wish I could be there. Hugs and kisses to all. Please come over if you want to stop by. Again sorry for your loss. Wish to see you soon. - Anna Weeks
This is Gilbert Sangalang, Nanay's third child of eight siblings.
When I was young, everyday life with Nanay defined how she colored my world. She showed me so many novel and exciting aspects of life, even while seemingly mundane.
Not being able to get close to my dad and other older relatives, every small problem I met had to be referred to my Nanay. She was my guide to depend on and was my sole mentor in those early years.
For many people, the ability to manage their lives later on in life is largely influenced by their upbringing and the experiences they had early on in life. Their ability to deal with the chaos of life and the conflicts has little to do with what they learned throughout life but with what they had absorbed from their early relationships and the upbringing provided by their parents.
With Nanay, the uniqueness of her Infancy, Childhood and Adolescence dictated, almost by destiny, how she chose to handle conflicts, challenges and opportunities. Her upbringing with a sudden transition to early Adulthood with children built up within her a tremendous focus towards raising her children and ensuring their happiness.
Memories of her flow through me whenever I listen to the first Stanza of John Mayer's song, "Daughters". I hope to share the song with you all:
I know a girl
She puts the color inside of my world
But she's just like a maze
Where all of the walls are continually changed
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZLbUIa7exE
All my life, Lola has been a steady symbol of peace.
As our family would shift and grow, I would come to her in a shy quietness, often seeking advice. And Lola would say, “It's ok lang, let's eat!” and I'd happily oblige.
She was happiest whenever her children were altogether. Athough the events of this winter will never be forgotten, I have no doubt that she is smiling at all of us, pleased to see that her family has come together as one.
Through Lola, we received so many gifts, which you can see among us:
Tito Rey, a true and loyal leader.
Tita Girlie, an independent pioneer.
Tito Gilbert, a modern rennaisance man.
Tito Bogs, a private soul.
My dad Amor, a curious adventurer.
Tita Melet, a seeker of beauty.
Uncle Jojo, committed to family.
Tita Irene, a symbol of peace and love.
Each child a representation of the incredible woman and mother she was.
Lola was amazed at every gift she received. Whether it was a phone call, a visit or a gift from abroad, she had the same expression - wow!
May we always carry Lola's beautiful, childlike adoration throughout our lives as she did.
Nanay, i will surely miss u! I am one of your homecare staff that you always offered food before you start eating yours. A very thoughtful person to everybody! No more pain Nay! You are already im good hands with our Creator. Enjoy your new journey over there.
She raised a beautiful family, she will be missed. Condolences to the Sangalang Family, may your memories support you in this difficult time.
God Bless,
Rachael Lee
I remember Nanay Ofelia when I first met here in Winnipeg but way back home I’ve known her already because of melet my best friend in college. Nanay Ofelia she was a warm and welcoming person, she was a gift to everyone who ever met her. I was so thankful that I knew your mother, she was a wonderful mentor always laughing brought joy. We will always consider your mom part of our family.
Nay, or should I say lola basyang? Even my kids call her that. The reason being that she always wants to tell stories and wants to hear stories. Nay, I want you to know how grateful I am to the Lord that I got a chance to take care of you. I won't forget your laugh, your words of wisdom, your smile, and your kindness. Thank you for making me feel at home and part of your family. Thank you for loving me and my whole family. In my heart, Nay, are the memories, and there you will always be. Mahal na mahal kita. Nay at mamimiss kita lalo kapag dumaraan kami sa bahay nyo at nasa me bintana ka. Airam asked me after she heard your passing, Who’s going to take care of her? I don’t have an answer right away because we all cried, but I know you are at home with our Creator; you have served your purpose in life, Nay. You will be forever in my heart. Mahal na mahal ka namin Nay. Hugs and prayers to the Sangalang and Gutierrez families.
Nanay Ofelia was the “coolest” as we always say. She’s game with everything. Always loved the company of everybody! She’s smart and witty. We will miss your infectious laughs and smiles, your kindness, your unconditional love. You will be forever missed Nanay Ofelia. Thank you for everything. Keep smiling on us in heaven. We love you!!
Auntie Felia is going to be missed forever…. She’s now in the company of our departed family… My mother Lydia was her best friend. They’re having a ball in Heaven in their grand reunion with their parents, brothers and sisters who went ahead.
They will never be forgotten. The great Salamante - Surla clan
They will always be in the back of our minds. They’re just covered up with our mundane concerns…but we have to move on and pray that when our time comes we will see them again.
Our heartfelt condolences to Nanay Ofelia's family. We have good memories of Nanay Ofelia who stood as our Godmother on our wedding day 40 years ago. She's a very kind person and always have a smile on her face. Have a peaceful eternal rest in paradise with our creator.
Our deepest condolences and praying for love, peace and comfort to Sangalang Family .
Love and Blessings,
Aquino
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