In memory of Elaine
I knew Elaine some 36 years ago when I just finished high school and worked as a receptionist at the Methodist Church of Singapore, Mt Sophia road. Elaine was my manager at that time and she always encouraged me to look beyond my horizon and to improve myself through further studies. When I told her that I would be heading to Adelaide, Australia to pursue my undergraduate degree in 1988, she was overjoyed.
Elaine and I kept in touch over the years. She was always interested and cared about what was happening in my personal and work life. Elaine was instrumental in my return to Adelaide for the second time in 2009; after the global financial crisis when I was at my cross road, not knowing what to do next with my life. I spoke to Elaine and took her advice which led to the change in my career from banking to Speech Pathology. She continued to provide guidance and was again instrumental in the setting up of my private practice in 2020.
Elaine and I both shared frequently about our ups and downs in life and talked for hours on the phone, especially during the past few years despite the time difference between Adelaide and Calgary. Elaine often talked about her family, children and their spouses, and grandchildren. She was very proud of their achievements and will always be. She would make herself available if and when they needed her support but was always respectful and mindful to give them the space to grow as a family.
Life has its seasons, as Elaine once said. Sometimes, when the season has passed, it is time for change… but don’t be afraid of the change as it will bring forth growth, new beginnings and renewed life. She also said "live life but stay within the palm of God."
Elaine was a leader to all and a perfect exempler of a lifelong learner. She was and will always be my mentor, sister and dearest friend. I am eternally grateful to have you in my life. Thank you for your love, nurture and care.
Elaine, you will be dearly missed but your legacy lives on.
Much love,
Bee Lan
