To My Dear Friend Frank,
It was a true blessing to have visited Frank in the hospital a couple of weeks before he passed. I genuinely believed he had conquered COVID and the pneumonia he was battling. While I think he did overcome those, it seems the strain on his lungs was too much to bear.
We had our usual profound discussions about God, golf, and good times. Frank’s perspectives on life, love, and religion were always uplifting, and I left with the sense that he would continue his fight with the support of his oxygen pack. His passing came as a profound shock. Losing a friend is never easy, but losing Frank has been especially difficult. He was a remarkable character who could light up any room. He once told me he felt his time wasn't up, and that’s probably why his passing feels so sudden.
I will miss our golfing days, especially down at Turner Valley. Our games were spirited and competitive (even if neither of us was particularly good). We were evenly matched, and each round was a toss-up as to who would win. I was impressed with his ability to play well right up until the end of this golf season, even with his oxygen pack. Golf truly brought out the best in Frank. Our post-game beers and discussions were always a highlight, filled with good-natured banter.
One of my favorite memories was my 50th birthday when Thelma and Frank took Kelly and me to Turner Valley for golf. I knew it would be a fun day when we stopped for a bottle of rye at the Turner Valley liquor store before even reaching the course. The day was filled with laughter, and on the way home, as the girls drove and Frank and I sat in the back, we decided to stop for a steak sandwich at Peanuts Pub. To my surprise, the three of them had planned a surprise birthday party for me. Seeing Frank’s satisfied grin that evening is a memory I will cherish forever.
I would have loved to hear Frank’s thoughts on Trump winning the US election this week. He always had strong opinions on politics, particularly when it came to Trump or Trudeau. As someone from Eastern (or Central) Canada, Frank had unique insights into Canadian and US politics. I will miss our political debates and stock market discussions, even if he never took my advice.
Frank, your steadfast presence and friendship have meant the world to me, and your absence is deeply felt. Life’s brevity can be painfully unfair, and this loss is a stark reminder. As we bid you farewell, we find solace in the hope of reuniting on the other side, though not too soon. Save a spot for me in your golf foursome up there.
To Thelma and the family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Frank’s impact on this world is indelible, and his memory will endure forever. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Sincerely,
Russ and Kelly Snyder
