I just heard of TJ's passing and would like to echo the comments that have been shared. I also knew him from the U of C Ballroom Dance Club. He had such a warm and generous personality, and brought such joy to everyone around him. He will be dearly missed.

My heartfelt condolences to T.J.'s family and all who loved him.

T.J. ...It's been 5 days since I learned of your passing that took place a month ago. The news still chokes me as you seemed bigger than life and filled with so much life in you. You were part of my dance family and understood what that meant. You were an inspiration, a leader and someone who genuinely cared. We danced with each other, learned more dance together, helped others learn to dance, we laughed, we shared from our hearts even our differences of opinion... we created memories. I feel fortunate you became like a brother in the 20.ish years I came to know you. You will be dearly missed my friend. Rest with peace.

...Rose

I have only learned of TJ's passing and deeply saddened to learn I will not see his smiling face. TJ and I & (my wife) Lynne meet TJ and Delores through dancing at the Calgary ballroom. TJ absorbed technique of dance and was always willing to provide help to others. His intellect and presence were second to none as he was always working towards making it better. Making life better.

TJ’s competitive spirit was always balanced with his wonderful sense of fun and camaraderie.

You will always be missed.

Murray and Lynne Kobe

Cowichan Bay,

Hany Michael

November 27,2024

Dear Ahmed, Ali, and the entire family,

I was deeply saddened to learn of TJ's passing. Though years have passed since our university days at the University of Calgary, the memories I shared with TJ remain vivid and cherished in my heart.

I had the privilege of playing soccer alongside TJ and both of you on the engineering team. Those matches weren't just about the sport – they were about the brotherhood we formed on the field. TJ's passion was contagious, his intelligence remarkable, and his ability to bring joy to every game was something special.

His competitive spirit was always balanced with his wonderful sense of fun and camaraderie.

While life took me back to Ontario and we lost touch over the years, the impact TJ had on my life during those university days has never faded. His vibrant personality, sharp mind, and warm friendship made those years some of my fondest memories.

May Allah grant TJ eternal peace and give you strength during this difficult time. Though words can never fully express the loss of a brother, son and husband, please know that TJ touched many lives, including mine, in profound ways. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

With heartfelt condolences,

Hany Michael

Kindly find my sympathy on loss of TJ.I met TJ 24 years ago during our joint work on PanCanadian power plant projects at DeltaHudson(later JACOBS).Great high talented, professional, honest and transparent person and leader.Based on our mutual interest we kept our friendship and industry relations as a continuous & valuable trend.During those days I approached him several times for his support and leadership of my projects(i.e.Aramco,SNC & JV for Cenovus programs).His support and leadership were all successful journey combined with mentorship of younger engineers and lots of achievements with good memories.We lost an energetic,dedicated and transparent human,engineer,leader and a great friend.Rest in peace, Behzad Shojaie

I’m more than 30 years younger than TJ, but even on my less energetic or introverted days, he was one of the few people I’d always stop to speak with at the Athletic Club. I’d often get in trouble with my girlfriend because I’d tell her I’d just be a moment in the locker room, only to run into TJ and lose track of time in one of our intriguing conversations. I’d end up apologizing later, but those talks were worth it.

I’ll always remember how he researched and proved to me that my Salvadorian last name was originally Turkish, offering me a meaningful clue to my genealogy. We explored so many topics together—philosophy, health, his visits to see his mom, and life in general. He was incredibly insightful, kind, and genuinely one of the good ones.

I was away for nearly two weeks and just discovered this heartbreaking news at the gym tonight. It came out of left field, and I’m still processing this loss. When I saw this, I felt I had to contribute something.

My deepest condolences to the family for the loss of such a charismatic and wonderful human being.

I was shocked and saddened to hear of TJ’s passing, a very intelligent and athletic man! He made me laugh and make me mad! But knowing him made me a better person. I thank you for that T.J.! To his beautiful wife Delores,you have lost a huge part of your life and it hurts! Delores I wish nothing but the best for you in the future! T .J. you have gone to a better world and I am so happy for you! Thank you T.J.for all the good memories. Walter Holden

Condolences to TJ's family.

I remember his as a brilliant and humble person. He was genuin and kind. I see him in my memory as a man who would bring with his presence. Till we meet again.

Babak Koohzad

"TJ was my co-worker in Calgary and a wonderful person—kind, respectful, and had a great sense of humor with surrounding colleagues. My deepest sympathy to TJ's family, especially his wife, whom I met at one of the company events. I was shocked to hear of his passing from a friend. May he rest in peace."

I was so very shocked and saddened to hear of TJ’s passing. He was always very kind to me. I will always remember that, when he was joking around, a characteristic glimmer of light was captured in his eyes as he grinned. He will be greatly missed.

- Don Mallory

Souls that pass in the night and then unavoidably return and meet.

A true life long friend; would do anything for you; always there to help.

A Kindred Spirit:

most look for that magical element to survive or thrive;

you, an overpowering need to know how things work, regardless of personal gain.

You loved to discuss; debate; argue. We rarely agreed fully on anything, yet had true respect & friendship.

You mentored the Dance Club beyond rational limits.

We will miss your spirited antics; your laughter; your dedicated friendship; your depth of character.

Rest peacefully dear friend. Until our paths cross again.

Karen & Don

I was deeply saddened to hear the news of TJ passing away. I can’t imagine the pain you’re experiencing. I am so honored I was able to get to know TJ during his remarkable life. What a good and generous person his was. A good friend who we would never forget

We knew TJ from the dance club. You could see his love and passion for dance and for the club. His joy when he stepped onto the dance floor was evident.

Keep on dancing TJ. We will miss you.

Our deepest condolences to the family.

Terence and Tracy.

Dearest Dolores and TJ’s extended family. Please accept our heartfelt condolences on TJ’s passing.

We always enjoyed engaging with TJ whether the topic was dance, travel or engineering. He was positive, warm, knowledgeable, engaging, and invariably made us feel welcome. What a lovely person.

We are so grateful our path’s crossed.

Rest in peace TJ. You will be missed.

With respect and deepest condolences – Carmen and Neil

I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of the loss of TJ. He was an incredible uncle and friend, and will always remember how supportive and kind he was when I lost my dad. He was the closest thing my dad had to a brother in Calgary. We were honoured to have him be the officiant of my dad’s service, and made sure we felt comfortable and supported.

TJ, you have no idea the impact you made on us, and I only wish I had more time to tell you. I hope you see

Dad where ever you may be, and you guys are continuing to have deep talks over coffee.

Dolores and Family of TJ Al-Himyary, please receive our deepfelt condolences on the passing of TJ. We observed an active and productive life devoted to family, working as expert engineer, a vigorous sportsman. He contributed many years to our dance community and Tibor collaborated with him at our Dance Club. TJ was always warm and congenial, and we empathized regarding issues that concerned both of us. We inquired about the health of each other’s mothers. Megan and Tibor will remember TJ vividly and fondly.

With deepest respect, May he rest in peace.

My love and condolences to Dolores and families. I am devastated to learn that such a good person as T.J. passed away. He was generous and kind, honest, available and helpful, so dedicated to our dance club. I like how precise he was. I will really miss him.

Lyse Carignan

Our condolences to all his loved ones. TJ will be remembered for his charm, his ability to engage an audience and his steadfast approach to life.

TJ will be greatly missed. One of my favourite memories of him is - whenever we had get togethers - he would always work his way around the room and talk to everyone - including people he had never met before.

Sending our love and condolences to Dolores and families

Khan Family

My condolences to TJ's family. TJ had so much dedication to the Dance Club. So many of us benefited from his kindness, sincerity, enthusiasm, caring..... for many years. To me he is also a good friend. He will be greatly missed.

Michael Chau

My heartfelt condolences to Dolores and his family. This is truly devastating news. I vividly remember my last phone call with him—it was about assisting a refugee family. Without hesitation, he offered his support, saying he could visit their place or speak with them over the phone. We went ahead with the call, and he generously interpreted the conversation for us.

He had a remarkable ability to bring people together. In social gatherings, he would make a genuine effort to engage everyone, regardless of their age or background. His warmth and inclusivity left a lasting impression on all who knew him. - Shakeel Khan

I am very sorry to learn of the early passing of Thair. He was a very good man and a very capable researcher May God rest his soul

Lana Mah

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Dear Dolores, I was so saddened to hear of your profound loss, and my thoughts are with you.

TJ was one of a kind. He will be dearly missed.

My deepest condolences to all of TJ's family and friends. I was both shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his passing. He was always very good to me and not only on a professional basis, but also as a friend. I will miss him dearly.

Alexandra McPherson

(Club Professional - The Calgary Dance Club)

Sad I never got to see him in person in the last few days.

He had the "wheel of life on his legs"

Always full of life, always moving.

May his soul rest in perfect PEACE.

Good buy to a dear and a true friend you cold rely on in times of need. I am still not willing to accept the new. I will miss you a lot.

Marzi

Can’t begin to express my sadness. Thair was a good friend and a brother. He was the facilitator of my late husband celebration of life in 2020. When I retired two years ago, I was happy to have Thair in my farewell lunch. Always remember how kind, energetic and true friend he was. He will be very much missed. May he rest in peace.