In loving memory of Robert, a devoted servant of Christ and a cherished member of the Calgary Indonesian Catholic community (UKI Calgary). Robert's unwavering faith, kindness, and dedication to the teachings of the Church is exemplary to many around him. His legacy of love, compassion, and service to God and community will remain a guiding light for all who knew him. May he rest in eternal peace in the presence of our Lord.

~ UKI Calgary ~

Dear Theresa and Family,

I will always remember Uncle Robert from the time I was young visiting Canada in 1995 until most recently when you all came to Melbourne for our wedding in 2016. We also remember how he managed to contact his far away relatives in Japan and talked about his travels and interests over a hearty meal with family and friends. Most importantly, we will always remember him as a kind , gentle and generous Uncle, may he rest in peace with his mother and father.

Julian , Monica , Louis and Kendrick Cheang

The Cheang family, Peter, Su Hong, Julian, Monica, their sons (Louis & Kendrick) and Amanda, remember Hap my cousin as a very devoted son to his parents and a practicing Catholic. He was generous to an overwhelming extent by always trying to pickup the tab and at times I had a hard time beating him to pay any bill. He shall be missed by us from Downunder (Melbourne, Australia), which he had visited a few times, last in 2016 for Julian's nuptials. May he now rest in peace and join in.union my Aunt and Uncle!

Dear Sutedja Family,

We were so deeply saddened to hear about Robert’s passing. Our hearts go out to all of you during this incredibly difficult time. Robert and Lily were such special people, and as long-time family friends, their kindness and warmth always made every moment with them feel so meaningful.

We still remember the sadness we felt when Lily passed in 2010, and now losing Robert feels like an even greater loss. We will always cherish the wonderful meals we shared and the love and laughter that surrounded those moments. As other ls have said, Grey Eagle was a recent favorite!

Please know you’re in our thoughts,

With love and heartfelt sympathy,

The Mah Family (Ted, Betty, Chris, and Jon (Kira)) and Andy Chin.

Dear Anna and Theresa and Family,

I only met Robert once, but it was clear that he was a good soul. My thoughts are with you in your loss, and I know that you cherish the the good memories that you have of him. You are a strong family and you will care for each other in this moment of sadness and reflection.

Peace,

Bill

Dear Teresa and family,

I am so sorry and saddened to hear of Robert’s passing. Robert was a dear friend of mine. He had such a kind and generous heart.

I first met Robert and his mom when they attended Sacred Heart church regularly. I know where Robert got his kind ways, i.e. from his mom, a sweet lady. Robert was a good and dedicated son who took very good care of his mom.

After his mom’s death, Robert continued to come to Sacred Heart church for the Saturday, 5:00 p.m. Mass and after the Mass he was very kind to give me and another friend a ride home. He also introduced us to the Grey Eagle buffet, his favourite place to eat, where on several occasions the 3 of us would go to after Mass. Also, whenever I mentioned to Robert that I was going on a vacation, he would right away offer to take me to the airport and sometimes even pick me up from the airport.

Robert was very social and had a curious mind. Whenever he met anyone he would say “Hello” to them in their language and get to know a little bit more about them. He enjoyed meeting my circle of friends when I had dinners at my place and invited him over.

Robert became a close friend of mine, almost like a family member and I will miss him. May he rest in Peace (RIP).

My sincere & deepest sympathy,

Cynthia Downey

Dear Anna and family

We wish to give you our sincere condolence with the loss of Robert.

We knew Robert via Lilly who we met about 43 years ago and we had many nice celebrations with her and Robert who took care of his mother.

When Lilly was no more we stayed in contact with Robert via email, phone calls and very nice meetings in restaurants and also dinner at our house.

Very sad that at one point we lost contact in person because he did not feel he could make it, always using the excuse

"I am so slow":)

As we were at Lilly's funeral we will be at Robert's too on Monday November 25, 11 o'clock at St. Luc.

Tonie and Fons Dekker

Dear Anna and Family

I am a Nurse who worked for many years with sweet Lily, our volunteer on Y2 at the Holy Cross Hospital in the 1980s and 90s. I met Robert through Dear Lily. Robert was quiet, sweet, polite gentleman and a gem to have met.

I have a funny memory I must tell. I just shared this with Ann.

Lily tried on several occasions to try to get me to marry Robert because she felt I would make a good wife and daughter-in-law who would take very good care of Robert. Lily did try many, many times. I did meet Robert as per Lily's wish and found Robert to be such a kind sweet soul, just like his Mother. However I explained to sweet Lily that I was looking for the same person, one that would take care of me. We both had a great chuckle over this, but it remains a favorite memory for me.

Robert and I remained distant friends for sometime following Lily's passing.

May Robert rest in peace xo

I am sending you and your family my sincere condolences. God Bless xo. It was a pleasure to meet both Lily and Robert xo

Thinking of you all,

Linda Lutz