Hi Everyone,
We feel so bad for each & everyone of you. These are very bad times coming up for you but together you will be strong. This is when you realize only family matters and not much else.
Many times Peter saw your mother at the shop and we saw her together at those magical Christmas parties.
Nick, do you remember one Christmas party I ate a very hot jalipino and my (Diane) mouth was on fire. You were laughing so hard and said, “What’s the matter with you? Look at my mother over there. She eats them all the time.” Looking over a few tables from us there she was eating those, what should be illegal, hot jalipinos. She loved them and she looked so cute enjoying every mouthful.
All of you must now try to focus on your good memories and it is hard to believe right now but time will help with the healing. Your mother/grandmother will still watch over you and see everything. Mothers/grandmothers never miss a thing. In time you will see signs that she is there and watching you. It happened to both of us with Peter’s mom & dad gone and my father gone and continues to happen when you least expect it. Have comfort in that as it is true. Your mother/grandma will never be gone. Watch for the signs. They will happen to you and when it happens it will give you great comfort.
Thinking of all of you in these extremely difficult times & we hope you all take care of each other.
Love,
Diane & Peter
