Very sorry for your loss. I believe I met your mother years ago when I visited Calgary with my family. My grandmother was Lulu Dewar, married to Roderick Dewar, my mother was Vivian Dewar. I also remember meeting Violet. I came to live in Calgary on my own in 1978, and visited them at that time as well. My grandmother died in 1984, and my mom in 2002. I would love to hear from any Dewar relatives.