This may seem strange, almost 5 years later, but sometimes you think of people and google them. I’m so sorry for your loss! I worked at Oxford from 1979-1981. I met John through the “Social Club” and played softball with him on the “Oxford All-Stars”. I have a team picture. He’s the only person in the picture with the team name on his T-shirt. He is described well as having a “great sense of humour, determination, generosity and quiet strength”. He was a very nice person. I still tell some of the great jokes he shared. Rest in Peace, John!!