Dear Heidi,
It has always been an internal struggle of mine finding a balance between my own sadness while remaining empathetic to bereaved family members. Ordinarily, I will withhold any demonstration of sorrow out of respect for those who were closer to the departed; but, you were no ordinary person. Reflecting on the fondness and admiration held by anyone who had the privilege of meeting you, it is truly exemplified what an extraordinary and unique light you brought to this world.
Coming from a family that rarely comes together and seldom to demonstrate any true affection, my introduction and inclusion into the family you built has offered me more than I could ever describe. I feel truly blessed to have joined the kin of a true Matriarch. I know all your grandchildren, especially my dear Reyko, are heartbroken at the thought of their children or any future children never having the opportunity to experience the warmth, charm, and enjoyable craziness that you provided them. However, I see your qualities at the core of all your children and grandchildren. Whether it’s Jill cheating to win games, the aunts ensuring no one leaves hungry (or over-stuffed more precisely), Lindsay’s immutable youth spirit, Reyko’s compassion to care for others, or Greg’s delight every time the family grows… It gives me true comfort knowing while you may no longer be with us, we will always feel the presence of your warmth and endless love.
While I likely will continue to hide from the role of pounding during Mochi and fearfully sit out of Nerds, I vow to make sure your future Great-Grand children will not!
Thank you for embracing me as part of a family I couldn’t have even dreamt up.
- Brandon
