I was very surprised to hear of Gary's passing, even though it has been some months. Gary was a fun guy to work with. He was well liked and always had a smile or a good come back to what ever was active at the time.

We at Highfield send our personal and professional regrets to the family.

Best regards,

Philip

I was very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He was a bright presence in the school community, and I always liked to see the kids giving him high-fives. I know he was a dedicated father and that he will be remembered fondly by his family and his friends. My deepest condolences to Kathy, and his sons Jack and James.

When I was out with the patrollers at Nellie, Gary would always readily greet me (and everyone) with a smile, a joke, or kind words. He was truly a treasure and made life better for those around him. May his memory be a blessing.

Dearest Kathy,

I'm so sorry to hear about Gary. Please accept my deepest condolences for you and your family's loss. I will keep you and your family in our prayers. Sending you hugs and love. Gabriella "Gabe" Jones

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and hugs for you and your family.

So sorry to hear this Kathy my heart breaks for you! Prayers for you and your Family. With love!

The SouthWest Communities Resource Centre is heartbroken to learn of Gary's passing. For almost ten years he provided our board with guidance as our Treasurer and then our Board chair. It is fun working with him, you never knew what was coming next.

He not only cared deeply about his family, he also cared about the community and how to give back. You will be deeply missed.

RIP Gary.

I am shocked. I met Gary in LA. He thought it was funny that l expressed Schadenfreude towards a coworker. And, I remember going to Gospel Brunch at the HOB on Sunset with him.

When I was a new immigrant to Canada, Gary was one of my first friends and he was a constant companion throughout grade 7 and 8 often as my dance partner at Bar and Bat Mitzvah parties. During high school and especially in grade 11, Gary and I hung out a lot and double dated with our friends Nen and Ian. Again, he was often my dance partner at high school dances. We would hang out at his home in Willowpark, listening to music and I remember some sort of disco party that he hosted in his basement. Gary was always kind to me and was a good friend at a time when I really needed one. Sadly, we lost touch after high school. I am so heartbroken by this loss and send my deepest condolences to your family. I hope that the memories of your husband and father, son and brother will serve as some comfort at this very sad time.

Dear Kathy, I was so sorry to hear about Gary. David and I are praying for you, your boys and your family. May God’s love and tender mercies sustain you through this difficult time.

Warm regards,

Tracy Dean Chisum

Kathy-

I am so incredibly sad to hear of Gary’s passing. I can’t imagine what you and the boys are going through. I will pray for strength and comfort for you and the family in the days ahead.

Big hug my friend.

Sherri Vaughan

When I would visit calgary to see my grandson I would go on some school day trips.gary was on these trips and we would often chat! He was such a great guy and a wonderful dad and his kids meant the world to him! Gary you will be missed by all the lives you touched along the way! Sincerely naomi baum (toronto)

Gary was a daily fixture at Nellie McClung School whilst I worked there. His smile, wave and words each morning upon drop off were sincere, heartfelt and real. Gary parented his boys with his whole heart, and with such raw honesty, humility and grit. He trusted his village with his heart and with his aspirations for his boys, and worked his guts out with and for them. Jack and James will deeply miss their dear Dad. My deepest condolences go out to them and to Katherine. Your community won’t be the same without you, Gary: Rest In Peace.

I am so sorry for your loss. Gary was an amazing guy. So many great conversations and laughs. I am thinking of the entire family during this time.

Aleya Naiman

Dear Kathy, Jack and James,

We are deeply saddened to learn of the sudden passing of Gary. He was such a kind and supportive friend for so many. We wish you strength and comfort for your loss.

Kelly & Craig Shoesmith

We are so very sorry to hear the news of Gary’s passing and at such a young age. We are praying and confident that you find the courage to deal with this tragedy. We love you very much and are here if you should need us Kathy. Our prayers have and will continue to be said for Gary, you, James, Jack and his family.

.Dear Wayne, Anna, Kathy, Jack and James,

I was heartbroken and shocked to hear of Gary's sudden passing. Please accept my deepest condolences. Gary and I have been friends since childhood. I have many memories of Gary at school and when our famlies got together. He always made me laugh. When I visited Calgary, Gary and his family and myself & my family got together. We always had great time and we often connected with other long time friends. He was taken too soon and will be deeply missed.

Sincerely,

Julie Sternberg and Mike & Stephanie Ezri

My earliest and fondest memories of Gary comes to mind of when he was just a baby and his mom (my aunt) would pop him up and down in the air and he would just giggle like crazy. His laugh was always so infectious and his sense of humour so endearing. We are just heartbroken at his passing. We loved Gary dearly and send our love and condolences to Kathy, the boys, Anna and Uncle Wayne. He will always live in our hearts. xo

Dear Kathy, Jack and James and of course Wayne and Pearl and sister Anna we grieve with you for your loss of Gary and hope you find solace in your hearts somewhere. Gary’s cousins here in America send their heart felt condolences as do Jim and I.

Dearest Kathy, Jack, James, Wayne and Pearl,

As I read Gary’s obituary I am in shock and heartbroken, and my love and comfort pours out to you at this difficult time. There are no right words that I can muster.

Though I can think of the good times we all shared, recall Gary’s smile and humor, send him love too and wish him eternal peace.

With so much love and comfort,

Mark

So sad to hear of Gary's passing. So unexpected & still so shocking. He was always there to lend a hand, offer supporting words or cracking a joke to lighten the mood.

Our love goes to his family - Kathy, Jack, James & Wayne especially during this hard time.

May you find rest & happiness Gary. RIP our dear friend.

Dear Kathy, Jack and James,

We are still in shock over Gary's passing as we did not expect it at all. Gary was such a friendly and helpful neighbour that we may never get another one like him. We could see that he dearly loved his sons.

May God be your Comforter during this difficult time in your lives.

John and Viola Louko

Dear Katherine ,Jack and James.

Graham and I are sending our love and prayers at this so very sad time for your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Graham and Peggy Lock

Katherine, Peggy and I are so very sad to learn of Gary's passing. We loved having you as neighbours in Lac des Arcs and we will always remember Gary fondly. He was so very helpful in shaping our community with his insights and guidance. We will miss him dearly

Graham and Peggy

I will miss trading quips with Gary. He was never at a loss for words. I will particularly miss our annual Burt Reynolds shooters at every summers Red Meat Party. Rest in peace my friend.

Gary was more than a neighbour who always waved and had a ready smile, he was more than a parent you made small talk with in the park while your children played together, he was a dear friend who accepted whoever you were, however you came, no matter the day you were having.

All subjects were open for debate and a hearty round of poking fun at; politics, mental health, medications, yoga, parenting... I will cherish our candid sidewalk and backyard conversations for some time to come my friend.

You parented your dear boys with all of your heart, you loved them big and when you made mistakes like we all do, you let us in to learn about it and grow together. My parenting village won’t be the same without you.

Thank you for accepting my son and I just as we were, however we came. And for more than just a wave in the street, thank you for stopping your car right then and there to ask about how we really were. Thank you for seeing us, we saw you too.

Xo

Jo

JoAnn Reynolds