Condolences
Dear Barb and Family,
We were very saddened to hear of the passing of Jay. He was such a vibrant man everywhere he went, whether it be at the Y, or coaching our daughter's soccer team, or even just running into you both at the Co-op, I always enjoyed our conversations. I know family was very important to him, and he will be missed by all, but I hope the memories that you all share will help you carry on during these difficult times.
Take care,
Bev, Dave, Paul and Caitlin Sardinha
Hi Barb and family,
Marianna and I were shocked to learn of Jay's passing. It seems like just yesterday we were raising our families of boys in Hawkwood. Jay's community spirit resonated in the neighbourhood. Everyone knew and respected Jay. He was among other things, one great dad. We recalled the story of Jay showing up with one of the teenage boys at a house party, much to the chagrin of Steven or Peter. There is no doubt Jay was a great family man and one good dad. Jay's involvement and leadership in the Scouting program benefited every boy in the community. He was strong and courageous, and not afraid to speak up. I greatly enjoyed being a Scout leader with Jay in Beavers and Cubs. We had a lot of fun together with the kids in weekly meetings, tours, and camps. I appreciated his energy!
Although we can't imagine how you must feel at this moment, we wish you courage in dealing with what lies ahead. We look forward to seeing you again soon.
Ron and Marianna Hofmeister
Hi Ian, Geoff and Grant,
Sorry to hear about Jay. I always enjoyed knowing Jay.
All my sincere condolences.
Jim Whitehouse.
Barbara, as with the many others, Tanis and I were saddened to hear that Jay had recently passed. I recall fondly the years of "scouting" with him in the Hawkwood 214 troop and the occasional running across him downtown during his IT business days. He was a true gentlemen, strong spirit and a great example of fatherhood. Bless his soul and our condolences to you, the boys and all other family members.
Ken and Tanis Kalynchuk
Barbara and family, We were so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. We have fond memories of him coaching our boys in soccer, and leading them in Beavers and Cubs. We are so sorry for your loss and our hearts go out to you.
George and Sheila Deakin
Having shared fifty-five years of friendship through a variety of activities beginning with Sunday School in 1966, Jay will be greatly missed by Heather and myself.
Harry and Heather Chase
Dear Barb and family,
We were happy to join you and the family this morning virtually for the funeral of Jay.
We too, have many memories of Jay.
One of these being the time were on a cruise to Russia and whilst visiting the church of the spilled Blood, were excited to see you and Jay across from us the the crowded church... How amazing was that!. (see separate photo)
Alan remembers the day we put out "Feather Care" Birdhouses with Jay and the Scouts around the Lost Lake Camp area... perhaps that prompted Jay's interest in Birding in later life. He was a huge support to many Scouts and Leaders in the 18th, having progressed through the 18th Scouts with us to be the Group Scoutmaster and Life Member.
Our condolences and love,
-Alan and Linda Davidson
Barbara, Cindy and I are saddened to hear of Jay’s passing. I have known Jay from my time with Hawkwood Cubs. We recently reconnected at CWC. I always enjoyed visiting with Jay. Topics were unlimited but he always liked to share his love of family.
With sympathy and prayers for you and all of the family.
-Dale and Cindy McCoy
Dear Barbara and family,
Please accept my condolences and expression of sympathy on the passing away of Jay. I knew Jay since we worked together at Touche Ross. Jay did an excellent job of making sure we stay connected as he made sure we arranged our coffee meetings. I am going to miss those meetings, as there was always a good joke to be told and lots of discussions on the world of work, politics and sports. I felt that I knew your family quite well as Jay always spoke proudly about his family and updated me on recent gatherings, events, trips and getaways.
I am going to miss Jay and those coffee meetings. He will always be remembered and I will cherish many fond memories of Jay and his stories.
May Jay Rest and Peace,
-Marino Giancarlo
We are so very sorry Barbara and boys, on the loss of Jay. He will be missed by all of you. We have many fond memories of Jay As our neighbour for so many years. Today’s
Service was a wonderful tribute to him, but I wish we could’ve been there in person. Please take care of yourself Barbara and call whenever you’re ready.
All our love,
-Kathie and Ben Maitland and family
Condolences to ALL of Jays Family ....
Jay has always brought a smile to my face and I have and Will Continue to Think of Jay at the Y!!!!
I remember being a Scout in the group with Jay as our Troop Leader and his commitment to ensure that the Scouting experience was available to his children, inspired me to continue to support the group. The service was lovely and they mentioned the trip to the Queen Charlotte Islands which for me was very formative in my world view. Looking back now, it was one of they key events that let me see how big we can dream.
Barb, and sons, please accept my deepest condolence on the passing of Jay. My memories of both Barb and Jay at the Crowfoot YMCA will be with me for ever.
So sad to hear of Jay’s passing...but glad to have had the chance to chat with him before Christmas. Our memories began in scouting & continued unbroken notwithstanding a 14-year stretch where I lived in North Vancouver. RIP Jay, you will be fondly remembered. Karen’s & my thoughts & prayers are with Barb & his family.
I have known Jay for over 30 years. We both came through the oil patch IT community and CIPS in the '80's. Jay was always generous with his time and willing to share his experience and advice. Our long time friendship is proof that friendship supersedes differences in political views. He was so proud of his family. Jay was a true friend and I will cherish the time we spent golfing, fishing or just having coffee or lunch. Maureen and I will miss you.
-Mike Byrne
Jay and I have been friends since about age 5 (that's some 67 years ago now), shared experiences through School and the 18th Boy Scouts. At age 14 we ventured to Vancouver to visit his friend George Carroll and while at the PNR, fell under the spell of Sandra McQueen and her Nudie Cuties tent show, even then, Sandra looked like she had 5 miles of bad road on her. We still laughed bout that trip. Gina knew Jay before I met Gina in 1966. Later, he was my Best Man at my 1972 wedding and he really was the best man. In recent years we would call each other to meet for coffee to solve the worlds problems. We 2 couples facetimed each other 2 days before Jay went into extended care. Well Jay your pain is over now as you move on. We will meet sometime, somewhere. Rest well my friend, Dale and Gina Sproule
I too, was shocked of the notice of Jay's passing. His always remembered smile will be thought of will be great memory that will not pass. His tremendous qualities of leadership, knowledge, sharing of life's values and experiences cannot be duplicated. These values were engrained through Gord and Diane and only to be continued with his affiliation with the 18th Boy Scout Group and through out his life that he graciously shared within the community. My sincere condolences to Barb and family; and to his brothers, Ian, Geoff, and Grant and respective families. Rick Weir
To my dear friend Jay. We first met in the mid 1960’s in scouting. That was the start of many years we have been fortunate to share our love of the outdoors and mountains. Together in the winter in the early years, we tobogganed and rubber tubed down hills, winter camped at Ribbon Creek Hostel, skated at Bowness Park, and participated in chuckwagons races in the annual Scout Ice Stampede. In later years we cross country skied in Kananaskis Country and ventured further ice skating in Canmore and at Lake Louise. In the summer our attention changed to focus on our love of hiking, cycling and picnicking. We also shared our love of sports and enjoyed many games with our season’s tickets for the Calgary Stampeders football and Calgary Flames hockey. Through all the many years we have been able to maintain our friendship. I will miss you, you have left us too soon; we had much left to do. I grieve for you now but eventually that will change to joy as I remember all the countless memories we shared. I hope that wherever you are now, that you have a view of our beloved mountains. Goodbye and may you rest in Peace. Frank
Dear Barbara and family, Dick and I are sorry to hear of the passing of Jay. Dick enjoyed his company in Menfolk Singing, and I was pleased to make his reacquaintance at the Winter Club, our acquaintanceship having started as frequent classmates in high school. Over the years there were random meetings ... parent orientation at St. Luke’s school, a meeting on the street leading to Jay connecting me with the High School Reunion, and most recently at the Winter Club. May he Rest In Peace.
I am so sorry to hear of Jay's passing, my deepest sympathy to Barbara and family.
I met Jay at the Crowfoot Y and have known him for over five years. We developed a friendship outside of the Y and use to go for coffee on a regular basis. Jay had lots of friends and no matter what coffee shop we went to he would always know somebody else there. I will miss seeing Jay, having our talks and listening to his stories. Jay was one of the busiest people I've ever met, he was either getting together with family or friends or venturing out to do one of the many activities he enjoyed.
Jay was an amazing positive person and a special friend. I will miss him dearly!
My thoughts and prayers are with Barbara and your family during this difficult time.
RIP my friend!
Keith
Jennifer and I were shocked and saddened to read of Jay's passing. When I was Scout Leader with the Hawkwood 214th I met Jay and was taken with his work in the junior sections of our Group. I am sorry that I didn't have the opportunity to work with him as he changed affiliations when it came time to work with Scouts. Our condolences go out to Barbara and the rest of the family.
Jennifer and Fred Butterworth
To my dear friend Jay. We first met in the mid 1960’s in scouting. That was the start of many years we have been fortunate to share our love of the outdoors and mountains. Together in the winter in the early years, we tobogganed and rubber tubed down hills, winter camped at Ribbon Creek Hostel, skated at Bowness Park, and participated in chuckwagons races in the annual Scout Ice Stampede. In later years we cross country skied in Kananaskis Country and ventured further ice skating in Canmore and at Lake Louise. In the summer our attention changed to focus on our love of hiking, cycling and picnicking. We also shared our love of sports and enjoyed many games with our season’s tickets for the Calgary Stampeders football and Calgary Flames hockey. Through all the many years we have been able to maintain our friendship. I will miss you, you have left us too soon; we had much left to do. I grieve for you now but eventually that will change to joy as I remember all the countless memories we shared. I hope that wherever you are now, that you have a view of our beloved mountains. Goodbye and may you rest in Peace. Frank
Roger: I am saddened to learn of your fathers passing and offer my condolences to you and your family.
My thoughts are with you and Kim and the boys ..
George Lepard
To my dear friend Jay. We first met in the mid 1960’s in scouting. That was the start of many years we have been fortunate to share our love of the outdoors and mountains. Together in the winter in the early years, we tobogganed and rubber tubed down hills, winter camped at Ribbon Creek Hostel, skated at Bowness Park, and participated in chuckwagons races in the annual Scout Ice Stampede. In later years we cross country skied in Kananaskis Country and ventured further ice skating in Canmore and at Lake Louise. In the summer our attention changed to focus on our love of hiking, cycling and picnicking. We also shared our love of sports and enjoyed many games with our season’s tickets for the Calgary Stampeders football and Calgary Flames hockey. Through all the many years we have been able to maintain our friendship. I will miss you, you have left us too soon; we had much left to do. I grieve for you now but eventually that will change to joy as I remember all the countless memories we shared. I hope that wherever you are now, that you have a view of our beloved mountains. Goodbye and may you rest in Peace. Frank
Our sincere condolences Barb and family.
We have many fond memories of Jay as coach of our son's soccer team for many years.
Lots of games around Calgary and area as well as trips to tournaments, even to St Paul, AB.
Heather & Don Yuen & family.
Dear Barbara,
I remember bumping into you and Jay, I think it was at the airport, when you were returning from your honeymoon(?), I was with Myrna Hogan at the time. Life seems so short. I greatly enjoyed working with Jay at the 18th Scout group over the years, meeting Jay's dad, getting to know your boys, and more recently encountering you at Northland Mall where we shared our current adventures. (Linda did the 6 day backpack in Iceland with a girl friend.) Jay will be missed. He has 'Gone Home' too soon.
-Ralph Garrett
Our deepest condolences to Barbara and family. I first met Jay when he was a Beaver leader at Hawkwood 214, and my son Alex was in Beavers, and Jay and I were Cub leaders when our sons moved up. Jay was passionate about Scouting and gave freely of his time and organizational skills. After I retired, Jay got a group together to go to the Food Bank and help out just before Christmas, so I went with them and had an amazing day. I enjoyed it so much I volunteered weekly for years before taking a hiatus due to Covid risk. Jay also told me where I could see Snowy Owls in winter. Jay was a positive influence who will be deeply missed.
George and Margaret Ziroff
I was shocked to read about Jay's passing today. Jay touched my life in so many ways. That guy on the bus. Leading the class at the Y. Beaver leaders together. All those conversations over the years at the Y or running passed each other on the river paths at lunch. Jay always had a joke to tell or appreciated a new one. He also took a genuine interest in how people were doing. He was so proud of his boys. Jay made the world a better place and I will miss him.
John MacDonald
To Barbara and the Lydiatt Family,
I am saddened by the loss of Jay. I always enjoyed his company and sense of humour at our group Dinners.
Please accept my sympathies. My thoughts are with you.
Jim Jung
I attended high school with Jay and my husband, Gordon Jaremko, was active with him at the Y as teens. He has always seemed to me a shining light of dignity, humor, strong values and family. It was reassuring over the years to run into him and see his becoming, his love for his parents, his wife and kids, for sports and just to bask in his humor about life.
We ran into you all about 3 years ago at a restaurant and though we barely had a chance to visit, he noticed our grandson resisting leaving the place and hiding between two parts of a sign. He looked over at me and we laughed.
I am so very sorry for your loss and for the community's loss.
-Beverley Smith
To Barbra and the boys, I am shocked to hear of Jays passing. I have many memories sitting with Jay having coffee or a Jugo juice downtown. I met Jay in the late 80’s at the YMCA while he was teaching a aerobics class. He truly was an energizer bunny. I am going to miss him.
Sam and Mary-Ann Secreti
Jay's energy and positive approach to life was so upliftng. He was loyal to his work and his Family.
Sincerely,
Heather and George Hall
A shock. I have great memories of sitting with Jay talking about Scouting and his family - and sometime during the conversation also talking about business. I can visualize the huge smile he always had and the contagious energy he brought to the table. My deepest sympathies to the family and friends.
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