Condolences
I don't know if Mr. Doyle was related to late Mr. Rama Peter Bhattacharya of Enis Road, Eire. If so, I am personally very sorry to know about his demise. May his eternal soul Rest in peace.
Bijit Bhattacharya.
A very belated note to say what a difference Tom made in so many peoples live through his music and caring spirit. I do hope his original musical “Evangeline” will be mounted again so that his many gifts to Calgary’s Theatre community will live on.
I was very fortunate to have Tom in my life.
Margot McDermott
Tom was a dear friend and second cousin who touched my life in many ways--in particular his positive outlook on life, his affirming nature, his gift of music and his deep faith stand out for me as hallmarks of a truly unforgettable character! My husband Steve and I have such fond memories of Tom's role in our wedding in February of 1974 where Tom sang and played Whiter Shades of Pale, The Lord is My Shephard and Peace is Flowing Like a River...years later he and I spent many an afternoon praying the Rosary together (Tom's lifetime favourite devotion) as we accompanied my dear sister Chris on her cancer journey; and then when he came to Ontario to debut Dad's in Bondage we had the good fortune of attending his fabulous live performance in Petrolia and also hosting him for several overnight stays at our home. He was a true inspiration to our three kids Nancy, Ginny and Mike during those visits. They were awestruck by Tom's ability to make our piano dance across the floor--his musicianship and style were extraordinary!! We are so grateful to Tom for inspiring their love of music which continues to this day. These later days with Tom have been a privileged walk--to see the grace, dignity and enduring hope that Tom continued to demonstrate in the face of suffering and death. Tom was a fine man who had an enormous circle of influence for good. I am a better person for knowing and loving him. He will be greatly missed by all of us but not forgotten. May his soul rest in peace. Wendy Bodsworth
We were fortunate to have known and enjoyed Tom for many years. He taught and inspired the love of music with our daughters Shauna and Kelly, and we will always remember him with love and gratitude. We express our deepest condolences to Tom’s loved ones and friends. Wendell and Maureen Strong
I was born and raised in Nanton and was fortunate to have attended school with Tom from kindergarten through grade 12 and even into our first year at the U of C. Our lives seemed to go in different directions after that and when I saw his obituary, it immediately brought back some wonderful memories. Tom was always a good guy and so proud of his Irish heritage. He always wanted you to know his middle name was" Patrick " and would wear a "Kiss Me I'm Irish" t-shirt every St. Patrick's day. He had a knack for attracting the ladies and set up his buddies (including me) on several dates. Good Times...Music was always a huge part of his life and it's good to see that he lived his life being able to follow his passion for playing and performing. In high school and university, the parties always seemed to end up with Tom as the focal point as he played the piano/organ and just got everyone involved and having a great time.
Charlie and Carol Sorenson
Tom was a close and dear friend of mine back in the early 70’s during our teenage years. Tom was a gift to Sing Out Calgary as his extraordinary piano playing added so much to our performances. I don’t think there was any song that he could not play. From Sing Out, Tom and I branched out to singing at weddings in Nanton and Calgary. The weddings in Nanton gave me a chance to get to know his lovely family, who welcomed me with open arms. I remember when we sang at my cousin’s wedding at the Inn on Lake Bonivista, the manager of the Inn asked if we could be regulars in the lounge. We were so excited! We thought we had been “discovered”. Unfortunately I wasn’t 18 so that didn’t happen. Tom hosted many parties in his rental on Northmount Dr. where all were welcome. I still think of him and the gang when I pass by that house. Of course every party involved us all singing with the leadership of Tom. I loved Tom’s enthusiasm and exuberance and zest for life. He was fun to be around.Although I have not seen much of Tom in the last 40 years, I made a point of following his career and saw his shows at Lunchbox and enjoyed his performances with Lana. You were one special person, Tom and there will always be a part of you in my heart. I send my deepest condolences to his beloved family and friends. Rest In Peace, Tom.
My friend of 40 years, it was my privilege to be there with you through your illness. We had laughs, from when we were crazy young people up until last week ... when we were crazy old people.
The living room Angel has been dancing ... but you know that. And I will make sure that everyone gets the things you wanted to leave them. As if we need anything to remember Thomas Patrick Joseph Doyle by.
Dear Tom
It is with an extremely heavy heart that I send you this final letter. As a double second cousin, you with always hold a very special place in my heart, the void created by your loss will never be filled. I know however that you would not want those of us left behind to wallow in tears ,buy, rather rejoice in the happy memories that you have helped to create.
Those memories are endless...
- The annual .. impromtue reunions at Magika cabin, Sylvan Lk AB. Where I would watch in wonder at the crazy antics you took part in with Chris and Sue. There was the truth or dare games ... or my all time favorite sleeping contests. Who decided to make the person first to fall asleep the winner. It made for a very short game.
-The many trips down to Nanton which always centred around a wonderful home cooked meal provided by your Mom ... always topped off by the evening sing along with you at the centre, playing piano on request.
There was the summer working for us at the Stampede. ... The day you ate a block of incense thinking it was chewing gum ... or the night that we accidentally hopped in our cars and returned home, leaving you behind in an empty Big 4 building.
Your creative side has always been present,even if not appreciated. Best example being the poured wax Xmas creation. To which Dad unknowingly asked ... what the hell is that mess. Even you burst out laughing at that one.
Your musical accomplishments were something that we alll watched proudly unfold before our eyes. There was Dads 1, 2 along with Evangeline and the national awards.
Most of my memories of you will in some way contain music... normally played or sung by you.
There were the years of Sing Out Calgary, with its many public performances ... most notably the ones in Nanton.
There was the summer that you and friend Ivan appeared one afternoon at Whispering Pines midway through our summer holiday, guitar and keyboard in hand. Only to be upstaged a few hours later by our dear friend Ted J as he raced down the lake towads us in a rented ski boat. Im not sure that Big Fran was overjoyed by the extra company but the rest of us thought it was fantastic. As we spread out sleeping bags on the floor and later.watched the lakeside performance that you put on for the entire complex.
- I will never forget seeing the joy on your face as you learned that my dear sister Chris had purchased and presented to you your very own mobile home in Kelowna for your 50th bday., completely decked out with all the trimmings provided by your soon to be best friends.
Tom, these happy memories are endless.
I will always remember your zest for life, your radient smile, your piana playing ... played with such gusto, your wonderful singing and most of all your love for all of those you encounter.
I will miss you dearly. It is with tears in my eyes and a smile on my face that I imagine you passing through the pearly gates of Heaven to the welcoming arms of your Mom, Dad and Brenda as the choir of angles sing your rendition of Danny Boy.
RIP Tom
I Love You
Your 2x cousin Tim Lefaivre
I met Tom, when I was a theatre student at Mount Royal College. Warmth is a word I would use to describe Tom. Laughter in his eyes and a smile on his face. Talented so incredibly talented as a musician and a writer. Of the shows I worked on with him, Ali Baba was my personal favorite as he was there from the very beginning, he co wrote the play and of course all the original music. And he was up on Stage every night playing the keyboards for the run of the show. It was my first time as stage manager and having Tom there just helped things run smooth and stay fun. I enjoyed many a pint with Tom and friends after a show or maybe even just after class. He was a special person I am so glad that our path crossed. Heaven will be humming a sweeter tune and having a good belly laugh now that Tom has moved in. Condolences to Tom's close friends and family.
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