It's been a long time but I'm most certainly this is the Jeremy that saved my life back at a house party in Calgary in the late 1980's. I just searched his name today (I'm not on any social media and I live in the far North) as I was looking to thank him for that thing he did for me way back when. No idea why it came to mind today. I met a good friend of his back in the early 90's when I was at Augustana and told her about the story and she spoke so fondly of "Jer". Condolences to the family. My wife passed away back in NOV2020 from CA and McInnis & Holloway of Calgary were quite helpful in those cold covid days.

-Ian

SJSA G90

To Jeremy and Family.

Dear Laura, Laurie,

Funny thing! As I remember Jer as a little boy.Running to hug me coming in my front door.

Going to the Long Horn to see a unique woman performing with her band. KD Lang!!

Jeremy asked me to dance and we danced! This older woman and a blonde haired young man.

While dancing Jeremy told me he wanted to marry me when he grew up! Haha.

So, Jeremy, (I believe you can hear me) thank you for always making me feel so special every single time we were together. I will always and forever remember your handsome face, your laughter and most of all your kindness you gave to this woman.

You will be in my thoughts forever and I hope you enjoy me talking to you often while driving in my truck, doing laundry, reading a book, listening to good tunes etc. Etc.

Think of us down here while enjoying Doug, Dan your Grandparents and anyone else that partakes in a great loving party!!!

Love Barb. (Your Cougar!)

I remember as a child being in awe of Jeremy and how confident and free-spirited he was, always with a twinkle in his eyes. He seemed worldly wise and a bit of a rebel which was of course the ultimate in cool. Mostly though, I remember Jeremy as kind, thoughtful and protective, whether it was holding me tight as a child on a fairground ride to make sure I didn’t fall out, or offering tips & life advice over the years as a wiser older brother. I still have a mixed tape that he made many years ago to introduce me to some of his favourite music. I loved spending time with Jeremy whenever I was back in Calgary and receiving his letters. I will miss his wit and quirky wisdom.

Thank you for brightening our lives just by being in them Jeremy. You’ll be forever in our thoughts and hearts.

Jeremy was a gentle and trusting spirit that was willing to help whenever he could. He loved to share his interest in music and Star Wars to many people. One was comfortable with Jeremy as he maintained a calm presence and a genuine caring interest in the people he knew and met.

His strength of spirit also prevailed in his acceptance of his journey and he was OK with it!

Rest in Peace! Thanks Jeremy!

Godspeed!

Our deepest sympathies. We’re just so very sorry! ❤️

Jolayne and John de Weerd

Jeremy was my oldest cousin and always a part of my life; I'm going to miss him dearly. As a kid he always had a cool factor for me to admire. He had the surfer-style hair, and had cool skateboards and taught me who the Beastie Boys and Run D.M.C. were. And his cool factor was always his own too - if you know Jer you know his Polo style, something few others could rock so well. His obituary really said it when it referred to his "subtly gregarious spirit". When I think of family gatherings, I always thing of Jer's role around the table. He was never the one to grab all the attention, but would always work his way around the room, making authentic and genuine connections with the people who were there. He'd ask questions about your life, remembering the small detail you shared with him at the last family gathering and, being the character he was, he would undoubtedly surprise you with an "out of left field" intro to the conversation lol. I loved that! It was truly something I looked forward to in advance of seeing him and not having that will really be missed. Jer was also such a thoughtful and generous person. It's not that he ever had a lot to give, in a material sense - but he always gave something thoughtful and demonstrative of his love for others. He would burn me CDs - from James Brown to Beastie Boys, and always neatly labelled with a full track listing - and share a thoughtfully written card for my my family. I can't say it enough: Jer was genuine and authentic to the max. In his last year or so of bring sick, he inspired me with his stoicism and what appeared to be peace of mind. He never complained, though he had every right to, and just wanted to live the best he could, in a simple and day to day sort of way. In one of my last visits with him, we sat in the backyard where he took pleasure in showing me around, he found joy in flashing a new Polo shirt he had bought himself, and we had a candid and honest talk about his life and experience. Jer - I love you man. You were a quiet role model, a loving cousin, and a stand up guy. I will miss you dearly. Rest peacefully, Cousin.

Wendy Crawford

I'm very sorry for the loss of your son, Tess! You have my sincere condolences!

Cathy Hendry Hawley

My sincerest condolences to you and Laurie and family, and all Jeremy's friends, Laura. Tender hugs to you, I wish I had known him.

Glen Underwood

So saddened by Jeremy's passing and sorry for your loss

God bless, my heart goes out to you and family.

Peter Mitchell

I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you, Laurie and family.

Trish Cameron

Oh so very sad to hear this terrible news Tess. Deepest sympathies on his loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Polly Wilson

Oh, Tess and Laurie, sending a hug and holding you in the light.

Linda Hatfield

Sending you light and love, Laura.

Tom and Doreen Eustace

Tom and I are so sorry for your loss Tess and Laurie. Our thoughts are with you.

Richard Poitras

My sincerest condolences you and Laurie.

Driftin Doug

Please accept my condolences Tess.

Chris Dunn

My heartfelt condolences

Diane Nowlan

My heart is wrapped around you and Laurie.

Rosemary Campbell

My condolences, Tess

Barbara Francis

Deep sympathy to you and all your family.

Michael MacLeod

I remember him fondly. My sympathies, Tess!

Sandy Johnson

Jeremy was a lovely soul. He will be missed by many.

Colleen Brown

I feel privileged i had a chance to meet him. Hugs to you all

Barbara Fodor

Sending love your way. Remembering all the good is the only way out of your sorrow.

Sue L Harrington

John and I sent you both our deepest condolences

Crystal Amanda Scheer

What a great picture of Jermey

Leah Scheer

Sending our love

Frances Snider

Laura, it took me a while to figure out that this is your son, who you lost earlier this month. We are so sad for you and your family, we cannot imagine what you are going through these days. With our deepest sympathy, Fran and Bill Snider

Dawn Scheer

Love that smile!! I will miss him terribly

Jessica Wagner

What a wonderful picture of Jer. I am so SO sorry for your loss. Sending my love to your family

Kim Scheer-Derbecker

Thinking of all of you. Jeremy was an amazing man. He would always go out of his way to make each person feel special. It could have been individual mixed tapes at Christmas for each of us or a special conversation, big hugs or a friendly conversation. Taken to soon but leaving a lasting impression on everyone who knew him. Big hugs to you, Uncle Laurie, Adrian and the rest of the family. Sending you all hugs, strength and prayers. Love you. May Jer now rest in peace.

Anne Scott

I’m so sorry to hear this news, Tess. My condolences to you and your family.

Glennis Houston

Oh Tess - I cannot imagine your heart break to lose a child. Condolences to you during this heart breaking time.

Phil Jones

A beautiful human was Jer..I miss him..

Rose Sexsmith

I’m so very very sorry for your precious loss Laura Tess Bassie. My deepest condolences to you & all who Love your Jeremy. Big loving hugs

Barb Olesen

We sure loved Jeremy. I can still see him and Doug ... imagine, yakking, during his smoke breaks when he painted our fence. ❤

I met Jeremy at FAMI probably before I met you Laura and Laurie. A young man at the end of the winding woods road guided me to the drop off and parking with serenity and a sweet smile. We later talked on the porch, smoking cigarettes and he told me that the river was close by, just through the trees. I always felt better when Jeremy was there to greet me. He was intuitive, kind, helpful, funny and definitely a wood elf. Big hugs to all.

So sorry to hear about Jeremy! I remember Jeremy from FAMI music camp - always quick to smile and help out whenever he could! Our condolences to Jeremy’s family and friends.

Sandy & Norbert Hirth

You will be so missed my dear brother, and your kindness, gentleness, generosity of spirit and wry sense of humour never forgotten. Love you.

Jeremy always had a smile and a hug for everyone! He always had something nice to say. He was a bright and shining light. His gentle presence will be missed. Love and prayers, Barbara Lansing

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on Jeromy's passing. We are so sad to see him go...

Rosemary and Ken