I was shocked to find out yesterday about Rob’s passing. I had always searched for him on Facebook, but could never find him. It wasn’t until I did a Google search yesterday that I learned of his passing, and it hit me hard.
I met Rob back in 1984 after I moved to the Palace Pier. I was a freshman, and Rob was a junior in high school. He was so kind to offer me a ride to Mimico High School every morning during grades 9 and 10. I recall his love of sports cars, as he owned an immaculate Honda Prelude, and later a white Toyota MR2, which inspired me to own three throughout my life. Being young and impressionable, I developed a love for nice cars myself, and I always mentioned to my wife and kids that it was because of Rob.
Rob was more than a friend; he was someone who helped me grow. He got me my first job at PJ’s Pet Center, where we worked side by side for a few years. Later, I recall him starting an auto wash and wax business for fine sports cars in the building at age 19 showing me the entrepreneurial spirit that he always carried with him. I recall one summer in 1985, when I casually mentioned that we should visit my brother in New Jersey, and Rob immediately asked, “When do you want to leave?” That spontaneous 12-hour trip to NJ and NYC turned out to be a fantastic time, filled with memories I’ll always treasure.
Though we drifted apart after he graduated and I moved to North Etobicoke, we kept in touch, even if less often, as many teens do. The last time I saw him was at my mother’s funeral in 2013. It meant so much that he attended, even on short notice.
From the moment I met Rob as a young, impressionable 16-year-old, his hard work and dedication, whether in school or at work, inspired me. Peer pressure wasn’t a problem for me at that time as it is for so many teens, as Rob instilled in me a love for so many positive things that I continue to practice to this day and try to instill in my own boys. He taught me the value of working hard, being polite, and appreciating everything beautiful in the world.
I regret not reconnecting with him before his passing. I always thought we would catch up again. Rob’s passing leaves a great void, and I know I’m not alone in feeling the deep loss. He will be missed by many, and I will remember him fondly.
I hope his family is finding comfort and strength during this difficult time. My thoughts are with them, and I wish them peace as they navigate through the pain of this loss.
Rest in peace, Rob.
Your friend,
Ivan Melnikov
