Condolences
Dear Carla, Bart, Wiebe, and Wilma
Sincere condolences. Gerrit was a true gentleman. We have many happy memories of fun times in Ottawa. Ironically, we were in Rideau Ferry on September 4 and were thinking of our visit there the year you sold the cottage.
Sincerely Bob And Sue
In 1955 Gerrit and I started our studies at the Technical University Delft. We did not know each other but met soon because we both started with an initiation of 3 weeks, a fairly unpleasant period necessary to become member of the DSB, one of 5 student societies. There were only 3 mining students in that year in the DSB. Gerrit was 4 years older than me because he had done his conscription. The centre of Delft is beautiful with canals and churches, the town of Vermeer, painter of the Girl with the pearl earring.
The Technical University was considered to be one of the best in Europe. The mining department was one of the smaller faculties with in our year approximately 30 students. The existence of thisfaculty was justified by the coal mines in the utter South of Holland and Shell, at the time a Dutch oil company. Most students were related to family working in these enterprises. The mining department turned out to be extremely traditional and offered (in my view) very poor quality of education, also in comparison to other faculties. A few anecdotes. Most exams were oral. Tail coat morning dress (in Dutch “jacquet”) was the compulsory dress. A student could not just knock on the door of a professor's room. You had to find a servant who had tot ask permission for the visit. Gerrit and I studied really independent of each other but it took us both too many years. Gerrit ran into the problem of his integrity. A professor asked in his oral exams always the same questions. Students gave proof of their social student's life when they asked the answers from their colleagues. Gerrit refused to do that with as result that he failed one particular exam four times. It certainly slowed his studies. The whole mining department was riddled with this kind of corruption. For one subject for which the students had to take a written exam the teacher during the last lesson presented all the questions of the exam plus the answers. Another example of the corruption I'll explain later.
One of the most useful in hindsight parts of our studies were the internships (I don't know a better word) during the summerholidays. Three of these internships I did together with Gerrit. The first time was in a coal mine in the extreme south of Holland. I remember going on my bike to Utrecht, staying with the Hos family one night and then riding the next day with Gerrit, about 180 km. We didn't have to do any work but we spent 8 weeks joining workers in various departments underground. This I still recall as a very impressive experience. Gerrit and I were in different mines but shared a lot of time together. The next occasion 2 years later was spending 8 weeks on and around a drilling platform. Gerrit and I agreed to avoid the traditional location and spent these weeks in the northern parts of Germany. We shared a private room with all meals provided but had different drilling platforms. The Germans worked hard: 24/7 drilling was done by just 3 crews of each 5 people. We had tot join one crew. During one of the few free weekends Gerrit's parents came and took us out to Bremen. The third period in the summer was somewhat different. We had to practice as geological field work, had tot analize the geology of a particular section of the Lahn valley in Germany. Students did that in groups of two. Gerrit and I went together. This time we travelled by motorbike, Gerrit had a nice 250 cc motor, a Jawa? He drove, I sat on the back. In one day we drove approximately 380 km. Gerrit's appearance in these days didn't show his toughness, he looked more like an intellectual, a sharp contrast with what was expected of a tough mining engineer. But I remember that in these days he told me about the hiking tours in the Alps with his cousins regularly. He must have missed that in his later life in Canada. Arriving in our prescribed 5 by 5 km area we found a deserted old open mine pit where we installed Gerrit's tent. There was an interesting incident. Gerrit got a terrible heat rash and was lying inside the blistering hot tent when a man dressed in a wrist watch only, approached our tent and told me that we had to leave. The next day the police told us the same because sex offenders used tot roam around there. We found another camp site and I remember a very unpleasant argument between us two. It was quite obvious that Gerrit's insight in geology was much better than mine. He more or less wrote the report that had to be presented to the person concerned in the ming department. We got an insufficient grade, Gerrit's analysis was not correct. We should have copied an analysis from students from previous years, gagain corruption.
For the last part of our studies we had tot choose a specialization: I chose extractive metallurgy, Gerrit oil exploitation. Somewhere in these last years my wife Inge and I visited Gerrit and Carla in an apartment in The Hague. It was more or less standard procedure for new mining engineers with oil exploitation as their specialisation, to apply with Shell. Gerrit did that too but was refused a job. Probably did he run into the old school mentality of this part of society. He had not been member of the right student society, he had no family working for Shell and with his fairly small posture and high pitched voice did not radiate the usual “masculinity” for Shell. This is only my guess. Gerrit choose for the option to emigrate to Canada and got a job without any problem, I think. In these days we did not have any contact and I think that at the moment of their departure to Canada, I had gone already with my family to Uganda for a teachng job. Years later we emigrated to Canada also but decided after three years to return to Holland.
Again years later we wanted to show our teenage daughters where they had lived. We could stay with Gerrit and Carla in Ottawa, the 5 of us, the kids got a chance to waterski for the first time in their life in the lake near the cottage, and they offered to use a car for a long trip through Canada and the USA. I want once more to express my gratitude for this exceptional hospitality, later on shown in Calgary also, when I visited them on my own.
Dear Carla, Bart, Wilma and Wiebe,
We offer you from Holland our condolences with the loss of your husband and father Gerrit. A life fullfild. In the obituaries. Rob shall recall some memories of Gerrit in the days of his studies in Delft, a period of which the children possibly do not know a lot.
We wish you, in particular Carla, strength to cope with the sad days to come.
Inge and Rob Knoppert
Lieve Carla, Bart, Wilma en Wiebe en familie,
We want to send our warm condolences with the passing of 'your' Gerrit. The last years were not very easy, but we have so many nice shared moments since we met him more than 50 years ago. In Ottawa, at your Rideau Lakes cottage and even Switzerland.
It is surprising, at a moment like this, how strong these memories are. The New Years Eves at your house (the jumping into the year); enjoying the sailing and swimming and hospitality at the cottage; listening together to medieval music in the Abbaye de Bonmont. Above all we appreciated the many discussions with him and his ability to put things in calm perspective.
We wensen jullie veel sterkte in deze moeilijke tijd,
Liefs Jean en Marjolijn
What fond memories I have of our time with you all, from visits to the house in Ottawa and incredible times at the Rideau River cottage. Condolences at your time of loss.
Love
Erik de Witte
Dear Carla, Bart, Wiebe and Wilma,
Our sincere condolences with the loss of Geppie. It has been such a long time since we went on vacation with my family to visit you all in Ottawa, Galgary and the cottage. Geppie was our funny (in dutch we would say "geestige") nephew of my mother. I remember that he once fell from his bike (head first) and explained it to us as a spectaculair fall, which was very smooth and relaxed. We had a great laugh because he looked so triumphant, surprisedly with a big smile when he told us this story. Thanks to you all I had a great stay when I was 8/10 years old at that time and Canada has been one of my favorite countries I've visited ever since. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Much love from Carlien, Fred, Indy and Bowie van Berkel-van der Brugh
Dear Carla and family,
Thinking of you all during this very difficult time of loss.
It was fascinating to read about Gerrit's full and very active life. So many memories you will have!
Praying for the Lord to give you His peace and comfort each day.
Kathy & Jerry Haasdyk
Dear Carla and Family,
We were very sad to hear of Gerrit’s passing. We have many happy memories of our times in Ottawa. We hope that your memories of Gerrit bring you peace.
Ken and Ardene Vollman and family
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