Condolences
I think it was 1977 when I first met Pat He came to work with us at Alida packaging and he wasted no time in fitting in with the crowd on shift. He was a complete bloody loon, much the same as most of us. It also helped him tremendously by being a Nottingham Forest lunatic fringe member. We bloody loved him, and so much looked forward to going to work, as every day was a laugh a minute. Mind you, we got the work done despite all the fooling about.
After he emigrated to Canada, and me and my family moving around the country with work commitments we kinda just lost touch. I often thought about him but didn't know how to find him. Through Facebook, and after what was probably 45 years Maria and Pat found me. How time flies! This resulted in us being in contact on an almost daily basis for the last almost 3 years of his life, and it was almost like we had never been apart. Our loss though, was Canada's gain and I'm as sure as I can be that as far as he was concerned, nothing much changed, and he would have formed a good group of friends out there.
I so wish I could have taken him to watch our beloved Nottingham Forest at the city ground, just for one last time, but sadly, due to his failing health it could never be. However, whenever I go there, for every time in the rest of my life, I promise faithfully that when Mull of Kintyre is sung before every kick off, I will be thinking of him, and I know he'll be there with me.
Rest in peace ya mad bastard red dog. I'll see you soon enough. UP THE REDS! X
Ay up Bro! Seems I have the privilege of being the only person on the planet who has known you all of your life. Although many years have been at a distance, you always wanted to know if I could remember things from our childhood. So, how's this? I remember taking you for a haircut at Alfie Martin's, and you walked out halfway through because you didn't like it, and when we went shoe shopping, despite you trying on every pair in the shop, none were good enough! You were such an awkward sod, even mum wouldn't take you so it was left to me. Probably as a result of hating haircuts when you were younger, as you grew older you had fashionable long hair. One night, you took a packet of crisps (ready salted, of course) to bed and fell asleep. The next morning, when you came out of your room, you had half a bag of broken crisps in your lovely blonde locks! One teatime, you had a major tantrum over a lump in your mashed potato, stormed out of the kitchen, slammed the door, but forgot to take your finger out of the frame - you proudly displayed the scar for the rest of your life! 3 weeks ago, during our weekly phone call, you reminded me of the time you took a carving knife to the pantry and left your mark - writing "fart" on the door for everyone to see. Of course I could remember it! One night, whilst eating my supper, you and your mates, all wearing red and white scarves pretended to be the Beatles playing pots as guitars, pans as drums and any other kitchen utensils you could find. Like every boyhood football fan in the 60s and 70s you were the proud owner of a Subbuteo set that was always set out on the hallway floor. So every time I wanted to go to the loo I had to hop, skip and jump around the match to avoid disrupting the play. You were always up to something, hiding in the shadows and jumping out scaring me to death; thanks for that! Having said all of this, your mates never knew that when they had all left, you would always nip back and give mum a kiss before you went out. There is so much I would like to say, but some things I will keep in my own mind and heart. Farewell for now, I love you, and of course, COYR! x
Foundest memories of Pat from his brother in laws brother and wife, Paul and Arleen Gregg (and we've still got the ironing board that we had off of you when you moved to Canada). The memory we wish to share was a bus journey to Wembley to watch Nottingham Forest play in the cup final (Forest did win) and as you do on trips like this many take a drink and some take food with them. Pat took drink we took both and shared our food with Pat! but as always we all needed a toilet break but poor Pat could not wait. I (Arleen) was politely asked 'could I have your empty pop bottle please but don't look back for a few minutes', After a minute or two Pat expressed relief fastened the top tightly and asked for a bag to put it in until he could dispose of it. This was met with much hilaritey with the rest of the people on the bus. Unfortunately he was banned from travelling on the bus again. Sending love to Maria and family. R. I. P. Pat xx
Our deepest condolences to Maria and all the family during this tough time.‐-- Bruce & Alice.
If you were fortunate enough to have Pat refer to you as his MATE you were his MATE for life.I was that fortunate.
I knew Pat for over 40 years. I can't recount the number of times Pat and I laughed so hard that we both ended up with sore stomachs and tears in our eyes, his sense of humor was incredibly funny.
Man some of the things that came out of his mouth. I'm chuckling now.
RIP MATE.
Our condolences to Maria and family. We’ll miss Pat and are grateful for knowing him.
All our love, Dan and Cathy Makcrow
I'm going to miss our daily routine about fun, football Lankey Bill and of course the "Wokin mens" Rest in Peace mate.
Roger and Christine Priestley
What a best mate eh? Argumentative, awkward, cantankerous these all help describe him but also the most loving and caring, love ya bro
Ron and Dona Eisler.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tough time. So sorry to hear of Pats passing. I knew Pat for some 20 years and always enjoyed our weekly get together at the local pub to share a pint.and bet on the next Rider/Stamps football game. Rest In Peace dear friend.
To Maria and family,
My heartfelt condolences to you all. Patty was a great man and a great friend to all. I will miss him dearly.
RIP my friend.
Sorry to hear of Pats passing, condolences to Marie and family, supplying Pat with Forest programmes was as much fun for me as it was for Pat, He will be sorely missed. Love from Ben and Lynn, Langley Mill Notts.
So very sorry to hear of the passing of Pat, I have very fond memories of him in Ford Avenue, Loscoe. He was a great pal to my brother Rob. Loved his support of Forest, it was lovely to see him & Maria in 2018, when we came out to see you. You will be missed so much. RIP Pat
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