Ruth was such a positive and wonderful person. I met her when she started at Angle Energy and we kept in touch when she moved on from there and often met for lunch. I loved Ruth and I respected her. She was so kind, generous and such a Lady. I loved her sense of style and her laugh. The last time I was in touch with her she congratulated me on the birth of my baby and to tell me about Charlotte. I always loved to see how she beamed with pride when she spoke of her family. We shared many laughs and stories together. Tim, Allison, Randy, Courtney and Charlotte - she always spoke of you all and she was incredibly proud of each of you. Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences.

Its almost been a month and I am still in shock that it still doesn’t feel real. I had the absolute pleasure of working with Ruth for the last 7 years. She was an amazing, big hearted, funny, kind, generous woman. She spoke so highly of her family and how proud she was of all of them. Her beautiful daughters Allison and Courtney, her precious granddaughter Charlotte, and amazing husband Tim. No matter what you spoke with Ruth about it would always end up being about family or a life lesson and I will cherish those conversations and moments forever. My heart breaks for everyone that had the honor of knowing Ruth. I will miss her determined high heel clicking walk at the office, chats about her weekends with the fam, travel adventures, life advice, her laugh/giggle and so much more.

Rest easy Ruth. I hope you know how much of an impression you left. Gone too soon.

Tim, Allison, Courtney, Charlotte and Randy, I hope you find comfort and peace from all of these messages and never forget how many lives Ruth left such a profound impression on.

I was so shocked to hear of Ruth’s passing. I first met Ruth when she was working as a JV Representative, and we became friends. Around this time last year, I went out after work for a glass of wine with Ruth, and I don’t think we finished talking until almost midnight. It is a terrific memory for me. She was a pleasure to work with professionally, and such a positive and upbeat person to enjoy a drink or meal with. She spoke of her family often, and was so proud of all of you.

Losing a loved one is always difficult, but I think losing someone during Covid restrictions is even more difficult. I hope you are able to take strength from each other, and know that there are many people who will miss Ruth’s smile and sense of humour.

With my deepest sympathies,

Lorraine Grant

I still remember that evening when my husband and I were invited to your home for dinner. We met your lovely family and the amazing hostess, Ruth. She made us feel so much at home and I could still remember her contagious laughter. Rest in peace, Ruth.

Our deepest condolences to you,

-Tim, Allison and Courtney.

Our deepest condolences go out to Tim, Allison, Randy and Courtney.

We so appreciated having Ruth as our neighbour for the past 25 years. Always smiling, always happy and a contagious laugh.

Our daughters so enjoyed the time spent with Courtney and Allison as they grew up in the neighbourhood together. The world was a much better place because Ruth was part of it.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

-The Gold Family.

In the five years I knew Ruth, I knew her to be a warm and welcoming person. She had a great sense of humour and a contagious laugh. Ruth was a wonderful mother (she was so proud of her girls) and a loving grandmother. I will remember the great times we had on vacation and the countless family dinners drinking wine around the table.

I will miss her dearly.

Mac

Tim & Family- We send our condolences-It's a great regret of mine that we drifted apart as we grew up and scattered with our busy lives. Our family (the Uncle Len clan- Louis, Denis, Celine & myself) was particularly close to Uncle Ed's family when we younger and we visited often. Ruth's passing was shock, very similar to that of Celine last year. Too Young- too soon.

Mark Auger, Tallahassee, Florida

I was very fortunate to work with Ruth for the past eight years. She was my team lead for the first five years of my career and I’ve realized that the skills and tact she taught me in those early years has helped me succeed today. Ruth was more than a college to me, she was a friend, a shoulder to cry on, an endless source of information and a pleasure to work with and for. She was patient but firm, smart and considerate, passionate and tactful, and so funny. At any point of the day, I could go to Ruth for any type of advice – Work questions always, but also, what to make for dinner, what new eye primer to try, which stores have sales, what is the perfect hostess gift, or what is the proper etiquette for a particular situation, Ruth always had an answer.

Though I never attended an event hosted by Ruth, I know they were incredible. The smallest of dinners always included an appetizer and a wine pairing, if she had out-of-town visitors, they would arrive to find baskets of local goodies artfully arranged in their rooms.

Ruth’s greatest pride in life was her family. Her stories of raising the girls permeated most conversations at one point or another. She would talk about camping together as a family, the adventures of Charlie the dog, the late night dance recitals, the Birthday party themes, and the last minute Halloween costumes. Ruth was so proud of the two women she and Tim had raised, and she was so elated to become a Grandmother, even though it implied her age. All the years working with Ruth, and she never told me how old she was, I wish I still didn’t know.

Ruth was so generous, and although she was never obligated to buy me anything, for every grande iced vanilla, non-fat, half sweet latte I bought her, she bought the next 30 for me. When I had a baby, she gave my family a generous gift and when I was struggling with my own grief, she’d listen to me ugly cry in her office. Ruth put so much thought and care into everything she did, even while shopping for new jewelry for herself, she always considered which of her children she would eventually give the new piece to, she always had to make sure things were fair.

Very few would ever know if Ruth was having a bad day at the office. She always looked so incredible. She had the most elegant style and natural grace. Her hair was shiny and her skin glowed. She was small but mighty. Losing Ruth will leave a void in the office, but also in my heart. She was such an incredible Leader, Hostess, Wife, Mother and Grandmother and she will be so greatly missed by all.

I was shocked and deeply saddened when I learned of Ruth’s passing. Her big bright smile that she brought to the office each and every day will truly be missed. I always admired Ruth for her classic style and professionalism. I will miss our coffee room chats which were usually about family, travelling and great dining. It was very evident how much her family meant to her and how proud she was of Tim, her daughters and especially her new granddaughter. Please accept my warmest condolences.

Tim and family

Our deepest condolences to all of you on the passing of your beloved wife and mother. We are so saddened for your loss and will remember you all in our prayers.

Arden and Linda Berg, Calgary

Dear Tim, We are so sorry to have read about the about the passing of your wife Ruth-Anne in the Ottawa Citizen. May you cherish the happy memories & may time heal your sadness. We are thinking of you. Christine Thomas & Gerry Derouin (EMBA'95)

My thoughts and prayers to the family, Ruth was so proud of her girls and Charlotte. She often spoke of the visits she had with the family and she was also so happy and kind. We shared many stories of camping and adventure and travelling. She especially loved her dinners with Tim and going to different restaurants. I would guess that one of her favorite camping trips was going down the coast with another family, as she spoke of it often. I hope that the fun times and memories give you all comfort at this time. I enjoyed working with Ruth for several years and she will be missed.

Marilyn

Tim, Greg and I were shocked and saddened to hear about Ruth’s passing. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. May your wonderful memories help get you through this terrible time of sorrow.

Laurie and Greg Houston, Calgary

Dear Tim, Allison, Randy, little Charlotte, and Courtney

We are deeply saddened to hear of Ruth’s passing. We will always remember her beautiful warm smile and her happy go lucky personality. We have so many fond memories of Ruth. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Love Peter,

-Amelia, Taunia, Mandy and families.

My heartfelt condolences on Ruth's passing. Ruth was a pillar of strength and energy and I was fortunate to know her. I am a better person today because of her energy and perseverance. Her family are in my thoughts and prayers.

I was deeply saddened to hear of Ruth's passing. I worked with Ruth and will always remember her friendliness and beautiful smile. She had way of making anyone feel comfortable and welcomed no matter what the setting. She was always willing to help and took pride in her work. I admired Ruth for always being well put together, her enthusiasm for life and love for her family. My sincerest thoughts and condolences to her family on their tremendous loss.

Rose Anne Lasig

Tim, Lynne and I were shocked to read about Ruth's passing. Our deepest condolences go to you and your whole family. It's been over 25 years since we were last together for our EMBA graduation at Queen's. I know you enjoyed lots of good times together. It's really hard now but in time hopefully only the really fun and good memories will be there for you to cherish. Please accept our sincere sympathies. Keith Langille, Ottawa

I am heartbroken to hear of Ruth’s passing. Over the years we have had many great conversations where no matter what the topic was, it always seems to end on our children. Her pride in Courtney, Allison and her grand-daughter Charlotte was always on display. I will miss the cadence of her walk when she was on a mission at work, her compassion, her laugh and her amazing smile.

My thoughts are with Tim and the entire family.

Christine Hann

Tim, my deepest condolences to you and the entire family. I was surprised and deeply saddened to here. My thoughts are with you all! Trent Gall

Tim and family, We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. We have such fond memories of Ruth’s smile, energy and optimism. You were both such welcomed and treasured guests in our home. Our hearts are heavy. Peter and Lorraine Moore

Ruth's Immaculata High School friends remember Ruth with much fondness. Her friendly smile lit up any room. Deepest condolences to the Family.

Dear Tim and family,

Doug and I are so sorry to hear of the passing of Ruth and our hearts break for you and the girls. I met Ruth through soccer in Edgemont and was instantly attracted to her warmth and friendliness. I remember her beautiful smile and infectious laugh especially during our tennis lessons at the Edgemont Club! Ruth was beautiful inside and out! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

With sincere sympathy,

Doug and Linda Reid

Tim, very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time.

Allen and Ellen Borak

Dear Tim, Ally, Courtney & Family,

We are so sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing and send you love and condolences during this very difficult time.

She was so proud of you girls. I loved all of the chats I had with her over the years. She was a wonderful woman.

Sincerely,

Jac & Alia Hoppenbrouwers

Dear Ally and family. I have so many fond memories of your mom dating back almost 20 years ago. It began with coaching Courtney's soccer team. I looked forward to the days your mom would invite me over for dinner before the games. Her cooking was always a treat! From Yorkshire pudding and roast beef, I'm still amazed how she managed such an extravagant meal on a week night! She truly was a special lady with a kind heart, and I felt so at ease with her. I will remember her fondly. Sending big hugs to you all.

Andrea Silva

Tim, my sincere condolences for your loss.

Alan Greenberg

Dear Tim, Allison and Courtney,

Wishing you strength to face the days ahead. Sincere condolences from our family to yours.

Maydelin Nunez & Family

Dear Allison, Courtney and Tim,

We are very sorry for your immeasurable loss. Ruth was an exceptional mother and so amazing! Her smile lit up a room and her warmth welcoming.

I hope you can find some solace in the memories you’ll share with each other, in your faith and your infinite love for each other.

In sympathy with you as you mourn,

Bettina Pierre-Gilles and Family

Tim, Ally and Courtney, I am so sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. She was such a beautiful lady, inside and out. I always remember her being so put together and brought sunshine into any room she entered. Thinking about you during this difficult time.

Memorable times spent with Ruth in Ottawa date back 40+ years...from high school days with all girls, uniforms and nuns at Immaculata, to dating guys who were best friends, to wild house parties playing Truth or Dare, to hosting elaborate themed dinner parties as young married couples, to having babies (some of whom would sleep 12 hours straight while some wouldn’t), to Friday night Dallas watching,and to awesome NYE galas at the National Gallery. When Tim and Ruth moved to Calgary our visits became less frequent, but no less enjoyable. They planned an epic road trip with us, from Calgary to Tofino and back with a rented Rv, their pop up trailer, and five kids combined, although Ruth made sure the Onyett girls were heavily medicated on Gravol anytime we hit the road, thus they won’t remember much of the trip! Ruth ensured we had everything we needed in our RV and hosted us graciously for the week beforehand so we could enjoy Stampede and day trips around Calgary. Life later brought a wonderful Mediterranean cruise to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversaries and we had so much fun exploring ruins, cities and shops. Ruth managed to find a little store in Kusadasi Turkey that sold “designer fake” purses and we spent so much time there choosing just the right ones to bring home for her girls that we almost missed the ship! We will miss Ruth’s warmth, kindness and joy of life.

Mary Anne and Marty van Gaal

We have only known Ruth for the past 5 years since,our son married her daughter Ally, but in that time you always felt welcomed and she felt like a friend have that you have known for a long time as she was always friendly smiling and laughing and always excepted everyone with open arms, we will miss her so much, condolences to Tim and Ally and Courtney and other family she will be missed, Very sad day for everyone hugs

Dear Tim, Allison and Courtney,

Shawn and I are so distressed by your loss. Ruth was such a joy to be around. Always so full of life and happiness. We join you in mourning her passing. We will remember her always as a beautiful person with so much love for her family and friends.

Sincerely

Jim Campbell

I am so very sad to hear of Ruth's passing...I worked with Ruth at Lightstream and continued to enjoy lunchtime walks long after my contract ended. Ruth always had a smile on her face and was always sharing stories of her lovely family that she was so incredibly proud of. May your family find some comfort in this and in knowing how much she was loved... and how she touched the lives of others. Linda M

Ruth was a dear friend for almost 40 years. We had the privilege of knowing her like a sister/brother. She was always positive and ready for adventure. The funniest memory that comes to mind was our first trip to Calgary to visit with them shortly after they had relocated from Ottawa. Tim and Kevin went golfing for the day and decided on the way home from Kananaskis to book a horseback riding trip the following day for Ruth and I. Anyone that knew Ruth would agree time was 2 hands on a round face that goes round and round and she would get there eventually. Needless to say we arrived late and everyone was already on their horses and waiting for these 2 gals that had all the time in the world. The owner told us to go ahead and get on the horses and we could settle up with her after the ride. The ride was an hour and a half up the mountain and the same back. We arrived back to checkered

tablecloth’s, pitchers of lemonade and barbecues fired up for a steak and bean lunch. We looked at one another and we were very impressed by how kind our husbands were to book such a great experience. We sat down to eat and noticed one couple at the end table didn’t have their food, which we thought was odd because everyone else had theirs. Suddenly the nice lady who waved us on earlier that morning came running out to say, “We have a problem there are 2 people eating that wasn’t scheduled for the lunch.”Ruth and I looked at one another and immediately knew that our husbands had not arranged for lunch, only the ride. Needless to say we were extremely embarrassed. We have many wonderful memories with Ruth. She will be sadly missed by all of our long time friends.